Kinky

Agger

hey girlies...what about kinky sex moments..
I'm having a special nite for me and my hubby on Thurs nite and really want to surprise hime and spice things up.
( things haven't been great lately with our work situation etc)

any ideas?

shellyboo

Hmm, depends on your definition of kinky, really

Are we talking candles and furry handcuffs or ballgags and whips? It really depends on what you're into as a couple...

Agger

Well we've never done anything too wild.
I was thinking maybe of dressing up...silks and suspenders etc anf maybe some tying up.
we have talked about anal but i dread the thoughts of it..is it as bad as it sounds...anybody???

Oryx

Well, what has he expressed an interest in? You must have some idea what hed like to do, but hasnt... yet. You could get dozens of ideas here, but because we dont know you, we could either bore ya, or scar you for life, depending.

Your mans kinky could be my mans vanilla. So more details are needed. But I do worry this is more suitable to s&s.

Oryx

Agger wrote: »

Well we've never done anything too wild.
I was thinking maybe of dressing up...silks and suspenders etc anf maybe some tying up.
we have talked about anal but i dread the thoughts of it..is it as bad as it sounds...anybody???

If you dread something, dont do it.

If your nervous but willing, there are ways to, ahem, get into it.*

*but Im not discussing them here.

Snowie

If you have a fantassy you'd like to live out maybe that... Role play, can be fun to....

as a man tho be shore to let him know you want him home... Also a few suggestive texts through out the day to get his mind working, ... other then that depends what your kink is!!!

Agger

Dressing up which I have done before.
I know he wants to do handcuffs and some whipping and I dont mind that...once not body bruising!!!
I'll buy some new lingerie which always goes down well...send suggestive texts and maybe try some "other" positions...thanks all.

Sparky

LouOB

Dont know why but men love the 'school girl' look

Oryx

Buy a roll of bondage tape. Hours of fun. And much kinder to your wrists than handcuffs.

nomorebadtown

LouOB wrote: »

Dont know why but men love the 'school girl' look

some men.

and its because when a boy is in school he is probably at his most stupidly horny but few of the girls his age (in their school uniforms) will do the decent thing and touch his willy. so one day when he's all grown up and a sultry slutty figure clad in a school uniform tells him she is about to ride him sideways, it brings back those memories of not getting any and is thus a turn on. am i wrong?

Snowie

LouOB wrote: »

Dont know why but men love the 'school girl' look

who cares out of all uniforms its the hotist if pulled of well

northern lights

Oryx wrote: »

Buy a roll of bondage tape. Hours of fun. And much kinder to your wrists than handcuffs.

Any idea where I could but this in Cork, or can you suggest a website where I could order it?

Many thanks

MJOR

Ann summers or kinkydevil.ie both of these places but at this late stage ann summers or the sex shop on parnell place or mccurtain st.

try maybe pennys for the undies and some cheap as chips candles.. maybe try a little lao dance for him?>

pikachucheeks

Agger wrote: »

Well we've never done anything too wild.
I was thinking maybe of dressing up...silks and suspenders etc anf maybe some tying up.

Yes! Do that.
Stockings and suspenders are an infallible plan!

Joey the lips

pikachucheeks wrote: »

Yes! Do that.
Stockings and suspenders are an infallible plan!

From a mans perspective this is cool. Any sort of dressup that revels long legs does it so wear heals.

I personally find its confidance. If you dress up feel confident and have the "Eat me" look your fella will be delighted

If you consider agressive sex or anal sex even just trying buy lube. There is lube out there shapped like a willie, not exactly but enough, it was be used as a play tool

Silk also works well if your considering tieing him up.

A game i thought of recently but have not had the chance is blindfolding, think of it, if you cant see what he is doing or he cant see what your doing you wont get embarrased as your eyes will be covered,

Just exp. and dont be afraid to set limits!

Nevyn

What is the difference between erotic and kinky?

Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using a chicken.

Joey the lips

Thaedydal wrote: »

What is the difference between erotic and kinky?

Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using a chicken.

Do you have that the wrong way around?

GirlInterrupted

Thaedydal wrote: »

What is the difference between erotic and kinky?

Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using a chicken.

I thought that kinky was using a feather and perverted was using the whole chicken?

And we should all give masochists a fair crack of the whip.:p

Nevyn

Joey the lips wrote: »

Do you have that the wrong way around?

Nope.

GirlInterrupted wrote: »

And we should all give masochists a fair crack of the whip.:p

Sticks and stones may break my bones
but whips and chains excite me

Really at this stage you should have some idea what does it for your husband
and you just work as much of that in as possible. Nothing like the time, care
and attention to detail of making a personalised fantasy happen and if it's one you both share it will be all the better for it.

Stheno

Thaedydal wrote: »

Nothing like the time, care
and attention to detail of making a personalised fantasy happen and if it's one you both share it will be all the better for it.

+1 tried this myself a few months ago and the fun/excitement/oooh ness of it was just great.

Really added to the occasion

On a side note, if you can't get bondage tape, Myla in Kildare villare do silk/lace handcuffs/ties, and you can order over the phone for next day Delivery.

Snowie

Thaedydal wrote: »

What is the difference between erotic and kinky?

Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using a chicken.

well thank you

i just reached higher expectations of spurting coffee all over my screen... :cool:

Nevyn

Why thank you, I'm here all week, try the veal.

nouggatti

nouggatti wrote: »

On a side note, if you can't get bondage tape, Myla in Kildare villare do silk/lace handcuffs/ties, and you can order over the phone for next day Delivery.

bondara online shop do nice velvety black rope also
though I guess for a starting off silky stuff might be better xD

Snowie

GirlInterrupted wrote: »

I thought that kinky was using a feather and perverted was using the whole chicken?

Have you never trid poreing candel wax and then pealing it of slowly and running a feather over it ? i wouldnt call it kinky id call it erotic well sorta kinky but wuite mild compared to having say 135 pegs attached to your body :eek:

Oryx

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

Have you never trid poreing candel wax and then pealing it of slowly and running a feather over it ? i wouldnt call it kinky id call it erotic well sorta kinky but wuite mild compared to having say 135 pegs attached to your body :eek:

[safekinkadvice]Be careful with wax. It can be painful, depending on whether its parafin or beeswax (cant rem which is hotter) and it can leave marks. [/safekinkadvice]:)

shellyboo

Be super careful with wax. Some waxes have higher melting points than others, so it could be up to burning temperature before you get to drip. There are special candles for sex purposes, again try the sex shops.

Oh and if you're dripping candle wax on your bloke, do avoid his intimate areas and his hairy areas, cos it's not a nice thing to have to pick off a hairy place!!

allabouteve

Inventive use of ice cubes can be pretty stimulating, especially in conjunction with the wax.

Blindfolds ftw.;)

SerialComplaint

Thaedydal wrote: »

What is the difference between erotic and kinky?

Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using a chicken.

Joey the lips wrote: »

Do you have that the wrong way around?

You had the chicken the wrong way around? Now that's kinky.

Snowie

shellyboo wrote: »

Be super careful with wax. Some waxes have higher melting points than others, so it could be up to burning temperature before you get to drip. There are special candles for sex purposes, again try the sex shops.

Oh and if you're dripping candle wax on your bloke, do avoid his intimate areas and his hairy areas, cos it's not a nice thing to have to pick off a hairy place!!

it parfin candels that burn hotter some people notice it, i dont :confused, Im weird tho