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  • 27-04-2009 8:02pm
    #1
    charlysgurl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    hi everyone!im new on this whole thread thing, hadnt registered b4... just wondering if any of ye have on opinion on my small issue...how long is a person seeing a guy b4 its officially a relationship???is it just taken for granted or does the whole awkward stoopid conversation have to be had????


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  • #2
    AlmightyCushion
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,125 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Moved from after hours.

    Charlysgurl - I moved this because you will get much better and more mature responses here.


  • #3
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Its impossible to know and varies from couple to couple. My OH assumed it was from the night we met but I only started to think about / question it about a month later...

    Dont rush into it.. Women can tend to worry about whether or not the guy likes her but forgets to work out and assess, as they date, if she truly likes him or not.. Take your time and make sure you do like him before you ask what the story is..


  • #4
    bluecell99
    Closed Accounts Posts: 259 ✭✭bluecell99


    Some people have the conversation and some dont.It just becomes the natural thing that ye are together,a couple.

    There a good few people who use a six month period(or thereabouts) as a benchmarker.But it varies.There are no hard and fast rules.


  • #5
    drunkmonkey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,694 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    AlmightyCushion wrote: »
    - I moved this because you will get much better and more mature responses here.

    Blast you cushion, she was about to get a baptism of fire in AH:D

    Charlysgirl, any more than 3 dates and I think you got something going...


  • #6
    upmeath
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭upmeath


    I was with my gf a little over 2 months when I asked her out, I didn't feel the conversation was necessary but I just decided to let her know how I felt about her, reassured us both and built on already steady foundations.

    Some people don't do it at all, a female friend of mine was with her bf for 14 months before he called her his gf to a friend out of the blue one night, no conversation was had there, they both just assumed it a long time before he said it.


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