confused as what to do

Glico Man

Right, so there's this girl I really like and I'm quite a shy and quiet person, always have been so I have never told her. I met her through my 2 housemates last year cos they're all in the same course. Last Monday the 3 of them went out in the city and came back quite drunk. We all sat in the living room and there was plenty of space everywhere else but this girl comes and sits next to me. And we chat about a few things. Then last friday we all went out for someone's birthday. Before we went out we were all drinking in my place and she again came and sat next to me and we were chatting away. On the bus into town she said to me that she wanted me to be her boyfriend for the night.

When we got to the club the two of us had our arms around eachother and were holding hands and were pretty much hanging off eachother the whole night and never really spent a minute apart and we got on really well. Then after the club we all came back to my place and myself and this girl were chatting again. Then came the time for her to go home and she only lives up the road and she was saying that she doesn't want anyone to walk her home cos she said it felt demeaning to her. I offered to walk her home and said I was doing it because I cared about her.

Then we got to her doorstep and she said she hated guys walking her home cos she always feels obliged to kiss them good night and I told her I wasn't expecting anything cos I'm not the kinda guy who takes advantage of girls after they've been drinking. Then just as I was turning around to go home she grabbed my arm and told me "this is me taking control" and we kissed for a good 10 minutes.

The next evening I got her number off my housemate and sent her a text asking how she was but she didn't reply. I bumped into her in college today and she was very brief with me. Maybe she felt embarrassed I don't know, hence the confused what to do...

Any advice at all is welcome

Aaron H (Confused guy)

Stewie83

Ha Arron,

I am in the same predicament except the girl is just out of a relationship...

To be honest texts are a disaster. Leave it be for a few days and try not to text her too much. To much texting can piss her off and you (esp. when you are not getting a reply).

I really like this women too, man she is amazing. Although this girl told me last week she doesnt like texting especailly when the conversation is open "ha how are you" etc. .

Keep saying hi to her in college, let her be brief. It is obvious that she likes you or else she would not have sat beside you, played around and kissed you.

Time is the essence here, keep your cards close to your chest.

Well good luck

keep us all posted.

Stewie

liah

Has she ever been sober when you've had chats or flirted or anything?

Maybe she's a flirty drunk.. I'd just let her be awhile, say hi when you see her and the like but don't push it, wait til you end up in a group social situation with her again and see how she acts now.

JangoFett

I say ignore her a bit, let her off, do her thing and you do your thing, and when you see her, be cool but for the love of steak don't TRY get her attention, ya know?

If she's interested, she'll talk to you, and if she isn't interested, move on

Mr. Frost

Don't girls normally like a guy to take control? How come it took you so long to kiss her? No offense but, maybe she thinks you're not who she thought you were given it you'd ample opportunity and didn't/couldn't take charge.