What to do?!?!

LegacyUser

well. recently(over the past 8/9months) I have gotten to know this fella better, I knew of him before like, but only started talking to him in these last months.. anyway he is my friends brother.. and Ive started to really like him.. Im not sure if he feels the same way but sometimes I feel that he kind of does.. im not sure if thats more "hope" though...I cant say anything because I dont want to make things awkward between me and my friend/him The friendship isnt worth losing like, especially if he doesn't feel the same way, I dont want to make a fool out of myself either seeming I see him regularly and that would just make everything so awkward!!.... ugh I dont know what to do!!!!!

star-pants

May I ask what age you & the friends brother are?

Also - if you feel the friendship is not worth losing, then perhaps it's best to stay away from the brother for now. Even if he was interested - he may also feel the 'my sisters bestfriend' situation isn't worth losing his sister over.
Has he given you any indication he might be interested? Or is it just you want him to?

LegacyUser

we are both 18. well Im not sure would I lose the friendship.. but I dont want to chance it either! Im not sure if he likes me or not, just the usual small things.. finding away to talk to me, making a reason, if you get me? silly jokes, eye contact.. Im properly just getting the wrong idea tho..:(

Pinky Pixie

Just flirt with him a bit and give him a little hint. Basically plant the idea in his head! If he acts on it..he is interested, If he doesn't...he is not. If he does and your friend starts to get pissed off with you...back off if ya want to keep being friends and If he does flirt back and you firend seems ok go for it! Simple

MagicMarker

Why not just ask your friend to ask questions and find out if he's into you?

LegacyUser

Pinky Pixie wrote: »

Just flirt with him a bit and give him a little hint. Basically plant the idea in his head! If he acts on it..he is interested, If he doesn't...he is not. If he does and your friend starts to get pissed off with you...back off if ya want to keep being friends and If he does flirt back and you firend seems ok go for it! Simple

ya thats what I was thinking I'd do.. Thanks so much for taking the time to reply

LegacyUser

MagicMarker wrote: »

Why not just ask your friend to ask questions and find out if he's into you?

well hes my friends brother like.. that would just be weird. I'l try and pluck up the courage to ask one of my other friends to ask him..

LegacyUser

i would say go for it! or else ask another friend to ask him..

LegacyUser

go for it,your only young once.

LegacyUser

I've been in your situation lol. I'm 17 now. Myself and the brother sort of danced around the issue for about 2 years before I plucked up the courage and asked him out... His sister (my best friend) was fine with it, and we were together nearly a year before we broke up... Although my friendship with her is still perfectly intact, I hate his guts and never want to see him again. So I'll probably never go around to her house anymore...

Just ask your friend if she'd be uncomfortable. If she's ok with it, then ask him if he'd like to meet up sometime. Simple