Do i tell her?

Vinta81

I was out last Saturday and scored with this guy I used to be in Uni with. He's a friend of a friend i guess you could say. I always saw him around, but last week was the first night we really spoke.

Well, he kinda came onto me and we kissed...three times. Now the complicated bit, a girl I was in uni with has a wicked huge crush on him. I knew she liked him for a bit at the beginning but didn't know if she still did? I guess that's beside the point. Well, he brought her up after awhile and kinda bitched about her and then he told me to tell her we scored! :rolleyes:

Anyways, he got my number from our friend and we kinda texted after we all went home and just today he texted me asking me out. I haven't texted back cause I don't know what to say, even though I know the answer is no.

Should I tell my friend what happened? we're supposed to be meeting up tonight and I feel so guilty

chillywilly

tell your friend what happened, see if she minds you going out with him. He sounds like a knob though trying to make your friend jealous

sardineta

What's to feel guilty about? She's not his gf and if you're going to decline his offer then there's nothing, going forward, of concern. Even if you were to date him, you're 27/28, not in high school.

Vinta81

I'm not interested in him though! He's very good looking, but not my type and besides i would never go out with someone my friend legit liked!

I'm actually 20? Different Uni to this year! Switched courses.

Oryx

Unless this thing with him becomes something more why tell her? Dont hide it as such, but making a point of telling her at this stage might make it sound like your rubbing her nose in it.

And keep at the back of your mind his bítching, and the fact he wanted to hurt her by telling her you 'scored'. Why would he do that? Makes him seem like a bit of an egotist tbh.

Vinta81

Oryx wrote: »

Unless this thing with him becomes something more why tell her? Dont hide it as such, but making a point of telling her at this stage might make it sound like your rubbing her nose in it.

And keep at the back of your mind his bítching, and the fact he wanted to hurt her by telling her you 'scored'. Why would he do that? Makes him seem like a bit of an egotist tbh.

I know, he wasn't very nice about her! it always seems worse when a guy bitches I think. I dunno, I guess I felt I wanted her to hear it from me instead of the gossip around college on monday, cause she can be a tad emotional.

Kimia

Yes do tell her.

He is an a*s. It sounds like he got with you to make her jealous or something? Or, even worse, he knows she likes him and wanted to make a point that he doesn't like her back.

star-pants

Vinta81 wrote: »

Should I tell my friend what happened? we're supposed to be meeting up tonight and I feel so guilty

Well you could say you were out and happened to kiss on a night out, that he came on to you and that's all there is to it. That you think he's a bit of a twat anyway.

Vinta81 wrote: »

I'm not interested in him though! He's very good looking, but not my type and besides i would never go out with someone my friend legit liked!

Text him back and say you're not interested.