Confused

LegacyUser

i guess in the grand scheme of things this isn't a big issue at all really...i would just appreciate some advice!

Have been single the past three months, after briefly going out with a guy who turned out to be emotionally abusive, selfish and just generally not a nice guy! haven't been interested in anyone since, just the odd drunken kiss on a few nights out. I guess i'm feeling a bit wary of some men at the moment.

There is a guy, lets call him Jack, who is good friends with a guy i know. I've met him a good few times over the past year, but he's the type of person that takes ages for him to warm up to anyone.
Over the past 6months we've been chatting whenever we meet, flirting and generally having th craic with each other. However nothin happened over that time as i was seeing someone.

Last wkend, we ended up in bed together at a house party, altho all we did was kiss..and a lil dry humpi here and there . He asked me was i now single and i asked him the same. He said he 'had no links, no ties at all'. However i know that he has been seeing some girl over the past few weeks. This is the main reason why i didn't sleep with him, as i didn't want to be played. I dont know if he's still seeing her or what the story is there.
He said to me that he had taken every opportunity to get talking to me during the night and that he has always wondered what it would be like to kiss me. The next morning i had to leave for work, so didn't get a chance to say anything to him.

I'm just wondering if you guys think he was just after a one night stand and tryin his best to be a playa..or do you think there might be more to it?

After my experience with the previous guy i was seeing i guess on my guard but i do like this guy and just wondering if i should try and persue something or just leave it be!

Any advice or comments would be appreciated! thanx

SarahSassy

He didnt really indicate that he would like to take you out sometime and he also denied seeing someone....

Think you could be played by this guy but so hard to tell with so little to go on...

Kimia

I think that you'll find out in due course. Hold back until you know if he's single and if he's interested in more than just a one night stand. Not that there's anything wrong with them, but it sounds like you want more.

Give him a chance to be a nice guy. If he's not you'll find out soon enough.

blogga

You're not that important.