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Women who have a sexual male mind

  • 07-04-2009 4:25pm
    #1
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭


    Alpha females, dont like them, often v critical, selfish, push guys into what fraud termed the super ego, ie they challenge a guys masculinity with criticism and competition, thus push him into insecure boast mode, ie Ive got a flash car, Ive got loads of money, Ive done this/that mode.

    The paradox being often women like this are often lied to/treated badly in relationships. Thus they think all men are bastards. Its not rocket science, do what a guy like in bed and make him feel at ease and he will want you, they just dont get it.

    A classic Alpha female would be Ulrika Johnson, as an example, been out with two Alphas, both treated v badly in past relationships, both obnoxious, driven by insecurity.


    If this does not fit here, please move it into relationship section.


    Ties in with this.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055424786


Comments

  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    I have no idea why you have put this here, your post comes across as very confused.
    I am going to give you a chance to clarifiy it, otherwise it will be deleted.


  • #3
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭cherrypicker555


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    I have no idea why you have put this here, your post comes across as very confused.
    I am going to give you a chance to clarifiy it, otherwise it will be deleted.


    Its about women who adopt a male sexual mindset, how is it confused ?


  • #4
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    So women who are dominant or domineering are adopting a mindset rather then being naturaly that way ?


  • #5
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭cherrypicker555


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    So women who are dominant or domineering are adopting a mindset rather then being naturaly that way ?



    Every dom women I have met was previously treated like crap in previous relationships. Often Alphas choose guys less intelligent or succesful, if they dont theres often a big clash. They also like to try to "change a guy" to what they want him to be.

    Adopting a form of behaviour from their experiences be it intentional or unintentional.


  • #6
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Alpha and dominant are not interchangible and they are not people who were scorned and now crave control.

    Seem to me that you dated assholes, and that is primary over thier gender.
    I suggest that you make better choices when it comes to people you choose to have a relationship with.


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  • #7
    JC 2K3
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,794 ✭✭✭JC 2K3


    This seems like a bit of a vent about past partners rather than a general thread for discussion... :S


  • #8
    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    I dont even know what you mean by a male sexual mind. In my sexperience both men and women like all kinds of different sex. There is no real gender divide that I can see.

    That said, your point is not even about that, it seems to be about women you have experienced who have an axe to grind with men. I promise ya, Ive met men like that too, its not unique to the female sex. Men and women get damaged, and pass it on.

    And this sentence just irks me:
    do what a guy like in bed and make him feel at ease and he will want you
    Complete sexist claptrap. In bed, male or female, you do what YOU like. You want to please your partner, sure, but as an equal, not in a please-want-me needy way.

    No wonder you've come across bitter women. You too, seem to have an axe to grind against women who have hurt you.


  • #9
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭cherrypicker555


    Whatever, can be bothered to argue, just got text off my new 19 yr old girl, my ex Alpha witch is not impressed, but I am, Im being 40.


  • #10
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Moved from S&S


  • #11
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    cherrypicker555 wrote: »
    Whatever, can be bothered to argue, just got text off my new 19 yr old girl, my ex Alpha witch is not impressed, but I am, Im being 40.

    And the point of this statement for the reason of forum discussion is?


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  • #12
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    How exactly, is this a personal issue?


  • #13
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    How exactly, is this a personal issue?
    Dunno :confused: Ask Thaedydal? She's the one who moved it from S&M.


  • #14
    Pinky Pixie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 241 ✭✭Pinky Pixie


    OP seems to me like you are a middle aged man with a bruised ego & an inferiority complex, going through a midlife crisis....your new girl sure picked a winner :rolleyes:


  • #15
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭cherrypicker555


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    How exactly, is this a personal issue?


    It is a personal issue, heres a thread on this woman posted previously.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055424786


  • #16
    cherrypicker555
    Closed Accounts Posts: 247 ✭✭cherrypicker555


    Pinky Pixie wrote: »
    OP seems to me like you are a middle aged man with a bruised ego & an inferiority complex, going through a midlife crisis....your new girl sure picked a winner :rolleyes:

    Lets try and keep it civil :)


  • #17
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Not really a PI as far as I can make out, if the OP wants it re-opened they can pm one of the mods.


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