Snorted coke last nite

LegacyUser

i snortd coke last nite. what the hell was i at? my boyfriend of 3 and a half years was killed in a car crash 6 months ago..i am very good at putting on a brave face nobody knows how utterly depressd i am, i fear after last nite that drugs will be the answer to my problems.

Fanny Cradock

I can tell you now that they aren't the answer to your problems. Forget the dabbling - you have to tackle the real issue here, which is the death of your boyfriend. Why would you put on a brave face about something staggeringly difficult like this? There is noting to be gained from this whatsoever. Try counselling, talking to a confident, finding God, whatever but don't pretend any more.

Mr. Incognito

Coke is a horrible rubbish expensive drug. It won't make your problems go away or do anything for you at all.

Go seek some councelling. You were obviously looking for an escape from your grief- coke is not the answer.

For the record the most of what you snorted last night was probably glucose, a crushed E and some novacaine. Very little real coke floats around in Ireland.

Craft25

Unregistered wrote: »

nobody knows how utterly depressd i am,

^^this has to change!! no man(or woman) is an island! try talk to family or friends, maybe his family? if that doesn't help you go tou your doctor & seek counselling.

trevo

Mr. Incognito wrote: »

Coke is a horrible rubbish expensive drug. It won't make your problems go away or do anything for you at all.

Go seek some councelling. You were obviously looking for an escape from your grief- coke is not the answer.

For the record the most of what you snorted last night was probably glucose, a crushed E and some novacaine. Very little real coke floats around in Ireland.

this message is 100% rite but instead of finding god use ur bf as ur new higher power and what would he think since you didnt use drugs around him....but you do really need to speak to some one befor every thing catchs up on you

beth-lou

So sorry about your boyfriend. Perhaps you should go and get some bereavement couselling.
Coke will make you feel brilliant for a very short while and then you will feel anxious, paranoid, angry and depressed. Please look after yourself and stay away from it. It is a nasty, incidious drug that can turn lovely people into obnoxious twunts.

thedeadpoet

I agree with everything thats been said so far. Cocaine wont solve the issue; merely masking the harsh emotions for a temporary time.

You need bereavement counselling. I advise you to contact your GP and explain to him what you've explained to us.

My condolences, OP.
You will get through this, and don't ever touch a narcotic again.

Tim Robbins

Fanny Cradock wrote: »

I can tell you now that they aren't the answer to your problems. Forget the dabbling - you have to tackle the real issue here, which is the death of your boyfriend. Why would you put on a brave face about something staggeringly difficult like this? There is noting to be gained from this whatsoever. Try counselling, talking to a confident, finding God, whatever but don't pretend any more.

Agree except for the "finding God" part. But sure if it works for you, it works. Anything is better than Coke - the root of all evil.

Fanny Cradock

My point was that there are clearly issues to be addressed and more than one way of addressing them. For some people counselling works, for others it doesn't. Likewise, looking at things from a more spiritual perspective will be beneficial for some people while it might not work for others. My point seems It seems fairly obvious, no? There is no panacea for psychological trauma.

Joey the lips

Hi OP - i see you have been through a bad time please try stay away from drugs. They really will not help and they dont help you forget.

If the loss is that much of an impact please make an appointment to see a councillor.

Take care