your first time..

dontcallmecrazy

Me...

beers followed by a bottle of southern comfort with my BF 2 months who told me he 'loved' me....the shame.

Wibbs

16 On holiday in europe with my folks. Bumped into this English lass, who was 21 in college. I looked older than I was so told her I was 20. Back to her room and ..... All I could think about was "man this is more physically awkward than I imagined" and "I wish my mates could see me now" yep typical 16 year old guy:o:D Can't remember much else, other than I had a severe dry spell that lasted for years afterward.:D

TBH looking back I'm sorry it wasnt with someone I at least knew. Hopeless rosemantic that I am.

just turned 16 , 2 months into college and deciding to hurry up and get it over with and complete my terribly young view of the college experience :pac:
so i found some nice lad in the extended circle of friends and did

nothing remarkable
followed by dry spell for some time too!

StroppySu

I was 17, my secondary school crush had recently turned into my boyfriend... 3 months down the line we got jiggy in his parents house when they went to mass

It was planned for about a week before hand so no sudden spontaneity!

I'm glad it was with my first proper boyfriend who I really was genuinely fond of at the time. Meant something at the time.

Although makes me so much happier looking back at the discomfort of it all, knowing how wonderfully brilliant it now is with my fiance

gowayouttadat

With my boyfriend of 6 months when I was just after turning 18. Night out together booked into a b&b and did the deed. We're still together 8 years later. We pass the b&b on our way into town every now and again and have a great laugh at it. So glad it was him though.

cson

18 in the front seat of a Micra looking out onto the Shannon.

Bout as rosemantic as I got for me, been all downhill since then :P

emy-87

I waited until I was a year and a half with my boyfriend, cos I wanted to be 100% sure of it. (We started going out at 16) I knew I wanted to lose it with him, but I wanted to make sure it was the right time for me. I am so glad we waited now, I actually really enjoyed it! His parents were away on holiday, so we did the deed on his bed. It was planned two weeks in advance, as soon as we heard they were going away!

Kya1976

I was 18 and it was with my first Irish bf, think it lasted about 4 seconds, the joy...

Keyzer

15...

At the zoo...

Behind the lions enclosure...

RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR

rainbow kirby

19, and I ended up with tree burn on my back.

SarahSassy

With my first love when we were 18 and we had been together for 9 months at that stage. We were in college and in our innocence we used 2 condoms at the same time in case one burst :eek:

I am glad it was with him cos we were so mad about each other and when I bumped into him over Xmas a few years ago we ended up snogging

Rayne

16 with my current boyf (together 7 yrs now)

Planned it, his best friend made sure to tell his whole class "Dara* just bought condoms!!" did it in his bed during the mid-term while his parents were at work!

Lets just say the earth didn't move!



*Not real name

holdmyhand?

17. my friends mams bed........poor guy, thought he was gonna have a sezure, his face all strained and he was going at it like a duracell bunny. although after that i was WOOOOOo i wanna do this all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i did for a while. untill i got old enough to appricate the true meaning of it.....

Rayne

holdmyhand? wrote: »

he was going at it like a duracell bunny.

Hee hee hee hee

Toots

17, after a few magic brownies, with my husband to be. We were together about 6 weeks at the time, neither of us had planned it, which I kind of like cos I think planning it can put a bit too much pressure on both

orlaj

16 in the church yard stayed with him pregnant at 19 was dropped like hot potatoe thank god !! beautiful 13 year old now and fab man well worth the hardship:p

MadgeBadge

19 (it would appear I was a late starter!) with my only love to date, it was painful and yet oddly enjoyable. I didn't tell him it was my first time, he didn't contact me for a week afterwards. Apparently, he thought I was a bit slutty. I was distraught.
We did get together, went out for four years before going our separate ways.

lilminx

nearly 20... *late late late starter* in college.. my older artist boyfriend's house. Planned... candles, wine, lots of tender attention...

then the deed.. and boy did I know what i'd been missing!!! great experience and exactly what I hoped for.. and worth waiting for in fairness.

then I got my period and he walked 2 miles to the siopa for me to get tampax..

went out with him for a year and he ended up stalking me.. but that's a whole other story...

weird aside story though.. my sis lost virginity the exact same night 250 miles away and we hadn't even told each other we were planning it or thinking of it or anything..

also got our first period the same day too.. frickin weird sibling connections.. lol

panda100

21,in the rosemantic surroundings of Belgrove UCD :pac: Had been going out with him for a year and it felt right. Was v.uncomfortable and painful though and I was glad when it was over!

monkeyfudge

Think I was also 21.

Lost the condom inside the girl... ha... she refused to believe it was still in there. Took a good deal of groping to retrieve it.

Haha.. I did splash out on a suite in the Great Southern Hotel in Galway and everything to try and make the event somewhat special.

There's a thread on boards somewhere were people have drawn their first times in MS Paint... funny stuff.

Weidii

19 in New York with my first love (aww)

... It hurt, I cried, he was absolutely sh*tting himself, good times!

Honey-ec

Wibbs wrote: »

16 On holiday in europe with my folks. Bumped into this English lass, who was 21 in college. I looked older than I was so told her I was 20. Back to her room and ..... All I could think about was "man this is more physically awkward than I imagined" and "I wish my mates could see me now" yep typical 16 year old guy:o:D Can't remember much else, other than I had a severe dry spell that lasted for years afterward.:D

TBH looking back I'm sorry it wasnt with someone I at least knew. Hopeless rosemantic that I am.

My eldest bro is on boards so I ain't fessing up here, but Wibbs, you're a dude! How did I never cop that?

acontadino

15 with a 17 year old girl from amsterdam on holiday in salou.;)

Professey Chin

17 in hotel after my debs with my on/off/on/off/etc gf
Was very awkward and clumsy then and I dunno about her but everytime is still awkward and clumsy for me...........i think............been a while:o

spinandscribble

19, new years night in my flat. no pain, quite enjoyable if not a bit clumsy. no sleep until dawn of course lol.

Snowie

2 days after my 20th birthday meet her in The club, , arranged to meet up go to the movies collected her driving over to liffy valley to watch a movie on the m50 she puts her hand on my leg and say how about we go for a drive, * grabs 3rd* tore off to tara hill, park up Joys of tinted windows.... smoked a spliff and then got the jungle buggie on, excpet it was more like a stick man cartoon :confussed:..........

Black Swan

Foxy memories!;)

star-pants

23, in a hotel room, and he(then bf) didn't know it was my first time til shortly beforehand lol. Suffice to say he was surprised.

barbiegirl

18 In a very small white Peugeot, parked up in Emo woods, with my then boy friend (25) who I "loved". Can't remember if it was awful or not. We were both sober after a trip to the cinema.

shellyboo

monkeyfudge wrote: »

Lost the condom inside the girl... ha... she refused to believe it was still in there. Took a good deal of groping to retrieve it.

Absolutely the worst thing that can happen with a sexual partner, especially a new one. Nothing kills the mood like being rumaged around in like a bin of some sort. Just... horrendous. Shudder.

This thread reminds me why I'm suppressing my memories of my first time... awful, awful story not fit for boards! I was a total idiot and it was HUGELY embarrassing!

Dudess

Had just turned 18 and was feeling under pressure to "catch up" with my mates (:rolleyes: - can't believe I was so impressionable) so on a night out to celebrate finishing school, there was a party at some college student's place and I did it with a guy there. Exceptionally unremarkable - not painful but not hugely comfortable either. Wish I'd waited until college, but meh, not too bothered either. It's rare your first time is gonna be amazing.

And 19/20 "late"? LOL

helimachoptor

18 with my cousins friend in the lobby of a hotel at my aunts wedding, kind of odd, I wondered what the big fuss was about, about a week later met a great girl who I would go out with for 4 years, we did a lot

monkeyfudge

shellyboo wrote: »

Absolutely the worst thing that can happen with a sexual partner, especially a new one. Nothing kills the mood like being rumaged around in like a bin of some sort. Just... horrendous. Shudder.

Oh.. I didn't help with the rummaging... I just stood there laughing.

We made a much better go of it the following day.

Had only been seeing her about a week at this stage... she was good fun though. Although she was cheating on a boyfriend with me, and then it turned out she was cheating on both of us with another guy and eloped and got married and the guys mother performed the ceremony... creepy... Last I heard she was divorced and charging entry to what she was calling an 'Eyes Wide Shut' style party.... brrrrr....

Dudess

Heh... "rummaging".

monkeyfudge wrote: »

Although she was cheating on a boyfriend with me, and then it turned out she was cheating on both of us with another guy and eloped and got married and the guys mother performed the ceremony... creepy... Last I heard she was divorced and charging entry to what she was calling an 'Eyes Wide Shut' style party.... brrrrr....

Brilliant!

monkeyfudge

Dudess wrote: »

Heh... "rummaging".

Brilliant!

The funniest thing of all though was how her boyfriend found out she was cheating with me... as I had requested a peculiar sexual favour and she got mixed up and thought it was him who had asked for it.

Cue her waving a particular object in his face screaming "This is what you wanted, wasn't it?"

Dudess

monkeyfudge wrote: »

The funniest thing of all though was how her boyfriend found out she was cheating with me... as I had requested a peculiar sexual favour and she got mixed up and thought it was him who had asked for it.

Cue her waving a particular object in his face screaming "This is what you wanted, wasn't it?"

A monkey? Seriously, you can't leave us guessing like that - no fair!

g'em

Dudess wrote: »

Heh... "rummaging".

It's awful And it doesn't get easier as you get older...

My first was when I was 17 with my bf, all planned and executed in military precision as was my style back then. Praise be to the day I discovered what fun spontaneity could be...

monkeyfudge

Dudess wrote: »

A monkey? Seriously, you can't leave us guessing like that - no fair!

Ha... I do still have some shame... don't think I can tell the full details of the story on a public forum.

Speaking of monkeys. There is a sex shop in Dublin that has monkeys in it's window. One of them is particularly awesome looking... it haunts me!

Tried twice so far though and they won't sell it to me.

Dudess

Real monkeys?

monkeyfudge

No. They're just plush toys... there's no sexy twist to them or anything either... it's very peculiar.

Thumpette

Too intriquiging! Go on! Do tell- it's only us!

Lorrs33

20, with my bf of 1 or 2 months, long-term friend, in his bed while his parents were at work. Painful, but we got past that quick enough

AnnieB82

Ok this is very embarrassing but I was actually 24 (nearly 25) and didn't know what I was doing. My boyfriend was 26 and it was his 2nd time, so our old-age induced awkwardness did not make for a 'magical' night! We have practiced lots since however - to make up for lost time - and I'm proud at how far I've come in a short time
ps. just noticed the pun - not intended...

tbh

Dudess wrote: »

Real monkeys?

lol real monkeys No offense. First time was with an older girl I met at a young fine gael conference in a field in swords. Kind of similar to wibbs' story, especially the bit where I was walking home thinking "I can't wait to tell the lads about this!" sorry, but I was 15, that's what you're supposed to think. A bit weird, I got home, stepped into the hall where I met my mam who said "you had sex haven't you?". kinda killed the buzz

Dudess

Nobody should be explaining themselves if they feel they were late (or early) starters. As long as it felt like the right time for you, **** what others think.

Although there were probably times when it didn't feel right - it was more down to pressure (e.g. my case) but meh, it was nobody else's decision...

tbh

at the time I was delighted, but now I wish my first time could have been with my first real girlfriend. shame but there you go..

Dudess

tbh wrote: »

lol real monkeys No offense.

LOL
Ah I wasn't being serious (I swear, honestly! )

monkeyfudge

Not sure how I felt after the first time. Probably some degree of elation.... I've never actually been very good at achieving orgasm during sex... so that usually puts a damper on the whole sex thing for me. Would be a good many years later before I'd have had an orgasm during sex.

tbh

monkeyfudge wrote: »

I've never actually been very good at achieving orgasm during sex...

I've always been deadly at that, I have to say. I always win, my g/friend is a really bad loser as well!

getz

the pope says you are all going to hell;;; i told him there is no room its full of your priests

sugar_smile

I was 15 and I had been with my bf (who was 18) approx 4-5 months, happend while we were babysitting.I don't think we planned it-can't remember!It was very clumsy-lots of laughing from both of us during it actually!!:D I'm 24 now & we're still together-we've got a lot better at it tho!!!!:D We still laugh about it till this day!!