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Breakup and feelings back again?

  • 26-03-2009 3:10pm
    #1
    thegame
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭


    when someone breaks up with you can there feelings change in the future or is that it? i know a guy that changed his image and met his girlfriend 2 months after the breakup and now there together again,when she left she said to him i hope i made the right choice,obivious she didnt,now he is back with her and they seem better than ever now.


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  • #2
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    It's all relative to the people / their lives /what happens. Sometimes your feelings change and stay that way. Other times they can change again.

    some people have been known to get back together after weeks/months/years apart. It can happen.


  • #3
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    thegame wrote: »
    when someone breaks up with you can there feelings change in the future or is that it? i know a guy that changed his image and met his girlfriend 2 months after the breakup and now there together again,when she left she said to him i hope i made the right choice,obivious she didnt,now he is back with her and they seem better than ever now.
    Comes down to one thing.
    did he change his image for himself, or for his girlfriend? Is he being himself or being the type of person she wants him to be? If he did it for her, then it's a lie and it'll come to en end.

    Ex's rarely ever get back together. The reasons for breaking up in the first place are still there and don't go away.


  • #4
    thegame
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭thegame


    Wagon wrote: »
    Comes down to one thing.
    did he change his image for himself, or for his girlfriend? Is he being himself or being the type of person she wants him to be? If he did it for her, then it's a lie and it'll come to en end.

    Ex's rarely ever get back together. The reasons for breaking up in the first place are still there and don't go away.

    no he lacked self confidence really bad after she left and he joined the gym and changed his style he did it for himself,and he met up with her and they seemed to just hit it off again


  • #5
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    thegame wrote: »
    no he lacked self confidence really bad after she left and he joined the gym and changed his style he did it for himself,and he met up with her and they seemed to just hit it off again
    Oh! well it that case it's grand. Women like confidence in men, so if his crippling lack of self confidence was the big factor in them breaking up it makes sense that fixing it would bring them together again. You can get back with an ex if the issue's that broke them up are dealt with.


  • #6
    thegame
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭thegame


    Lucky for some,wish it happened for all of us that lost the one we loved


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