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Advice?

  • 26-03-2009 12:00am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This sounds totally crazy and I probably just need to cop myself on, but anyway...

    Been meeting up with a girl for a few weeks now and we're getting on really well. So well we're bf-gf albeit early days yet. I really do like her a lot. So we were fooling around tonite with each other and chatting afterwards she tells me she's a virgin. It kinda hit me for six cos I've never been in that situation before. Now the sex thing isn't an issue with me, far from it in fact. I really do like her and whenever she's ready is fine with me. The thing I'm kinda apprehensive about is being her first and for want of a better word; not wanting to disappoint (which sounds crazy in itself seeing as there'll be nothing to compare it to). Basically I have strong feelings for her and really don't want to fook it up first time for her. I know I should let it all happen naturally and all that but im still a touch apprehensive.


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  • #2
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    I take it you arent a virgin OP.Simply do what you have been doing with past partners.Make sure your new girl is as comfortable and relaxed as possible,take your time,be gentle and above all be respectful.I should add that you seem like a decent bloke so none of the above should be an issue anyway!


  • #3
    jordainius
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,654 ✭✭✭jordainius


    Unregistered wrote: »
    This sounds totally crazy and I probably just need to cop myself on, but anyway...

    Been meeting up with a girl for a few weeks now and we're getting on really well. So well we're bf-gf albeit early days yet. I really do like her a lot. So we were fooling around tonite with each other and chatting afterwards she tells me she's a virgin. It kinda hit me for six cos I've never been in that situation before. Now the sex thing isn't an issue with me, far from it in fact. I really do like her and whenever she's ready is fine with me. The thing I'm kinda apprehensive about is being her first and for want of a better word; not wanting to disappoint (which sounds crazy in itself seeing as there'll be nothing to compare it to). Basically I have strong feelings for her and really don't want to fook it up first time for her. I know I should let it all happen naturally and all that but im still a touch apprehensive.

    Don't think you need advice. You sound like a decent fella and your heart seems to be in the right place. You'll be grand!


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    I wouldn't worry about it - just be as nice as you have been. Obviously when she's ready - just take things very very slow and gentle cuz I'll be honest, it's probably mostly going to hurt her first (and possibly few) times. So just support her, stop if needs be & reassure her as she might be embarrassed/nervous. Good luck


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