Sister/Boyfriend

*giggles*

It's me again.

I'm getting frustrated with the way my sister has been texting the guy I really like. Things are moving really quickly between us but whenever I ask her who she is texting, it's always him. He just texts back because he is really just friends with her, and it's what he would do if it was anyone else. BTW, she has a boyfriend, but she still texts my guy. I don't want to sound like I'm hogging him or anything, but it really and truly is getting on my nerves. She insists on talking to him, texting him something funny that might have just happened etc. I have asked her at least twice everyday (for the past 2 weeks!) to not initiate conversation with him, she says she will, but continues to do it. He sees it as nothing, but it makes me extremely jealous and annoyed. He hasn't texted me much lately because he's talking to her. I know he doesn't like her, he told me that, and she says she doesn't like him in that way either.

Opinions/comments/suggestions are welcome.
Yours,
*giggles*

pwd

you're p!ssed off because your sister is talking to a guy you like? Not flirting/snogging/shagging, but just talking/texting? Most people like it when gfs/bfs get on with their family. This guy isn't even a bf. In my opinion it sounds like you're making a fool of yourself, and probably seeming a bit desperate. I'd say you're really putting this guy off if you're taking issue with stuff like this.
Just relax. You can't demand that you're the centre of someone's attention just because you fancy them.

wylo

pwd wrote: »

you're p!ssed off because your sister is talking to a guy you like? Not flirting/snogging/shagging, but just talking/texting? Most people like it when gfs/bfs get on with their family. This guy isn't even a bf. In my opinion it sounds like you're making a fool of yourself, and probably seeming a bit desperate. I'd say you're really putting this guy off if you're taking issue with stuff like this.
Just relax. You can't demand that you're the centre of someone's attention just because you fancy them.

Bullsh1t, there is definitely something wrong with a girl constantly texting her sisters fella , or even the fella shes clearly mad about, especially if she already has a boyfriend,

She sounds like a bitch OP, but maybe you should have words with him , he sounds as bad if hes constantly engaging in these text conversations.

SarahMc

Is there a history of competitiveness between you (other than the normal sibling stuff)?

I havent followed your previous threads, but if you are in a relationship with this guy, this is not on from either your sis' or the guys side!

star-pants

*giggles* wrote: »

He hasn't texted me much lately because he's talking to her. I know he doesn't like her, he told me that, and she says she doesn't like him in that way either.

See now that would be the thing that would annoy me. If my bf was texting my sister instead of me. If they want to be friends great, but I wouldn't be happy if it was at my expense.
I have been friends with friends bfs/gfs but i would always be aware of not overstepping any mark, making sure I wasn't doing anything that would give either side cause to be jealous etc.

Was he friends with her first? what age are the three of ye? And does she text her bf half as much?

EDIT -- your title says sister/bf yet you say it's a guy you like.... is he your bf or not?

Mr. Incognito

You only fancy him. He's not your boyfriend he's entitled to text who he wants. Sucks for you unfortunately. Does he know that your sister has a boyfriend?