Sex Toys

LegacyUser

Hi
Myself and the hubby have a good sex life.
About a year ago he bought me a rabbit that I love and we use it together - although not every time we have sex.

I'd like to buy some more toys but to be honest im not sure what half the stuff is even for!

I thought we could try a penis ring but the selection is massive and some of them look very small and surely must be uncomfortable for the man to wear??

Can anyone suggest a toy other than the rabbit?

Also do the 'little blue pills' that most sites sell work?
Thanks

dudara

If anyone even so much as thinks about responding to the Viagra question, I will ban immediately.

Viagra is a prescription drug. Purchasing Viagra from internet wesbites without the guarantee of authenticity and medical oversight is stupid to say to least.

dudara

prinz

ive seen a sexy monopoly game, where you buy clothes and various body parts of the person your playing with to do as you like with

sardineta

Your posting shouts "me me me" - take a look at the fleshlight.

prinz

sardineta wrote: »

Your posting shouts "me me me" - take a look at the fleshlight.

thought that too why i suggested a toy for two

Lolabugs

Why don't you try an Ann Summers Party???
You basically call them up and get one of their representatives to call down to your house. Invite a few of your girl friends who are up for a laugh to come down and have a girly night in with a few drinks. Its free!!!
We had one for my friends mothers hen night. Was a right laugh.

The rep brings down toys, cotumes, lubes etc and you get to try them out. She goes through their catalogue with yous and gives you a form which you can order things. Also if you dont want to order anything "mad" infront of your friends, you can at least get the info that you need from the rep and ring her at a diferent stage and order stuff.

She'll also be able to answer any questions that you may have

prinz

Lolabugs wrote: »

The rep brings down toys, cotumes, lubes etc and you get to try them out.

eh what? Is it just me or does that sound a little odd?

I think the OP needs to involve her OH more as that seems a bigger issue than her getting her jollies. she wants toys..... for herself. She should ask her fella what he wants.

Nevyn

No, it's not odd and ann summers parties have been running in this country for over 10 years.

OP I suggest you go shopping together and have a look at what interests you as a couple.

shellyboo

prinz wrote: »

eh what? Is it just me or does that sound a little odd?

I think the OP needs to involve her OH more as that seems a bigger issue than her getting her jollies. she wants toys..... for herself. She should ask her fella what he wants.

What sounds odd about it?

She says they BOTH use they toy they have and they want MORE toys to use together. How is her just "getting her jollies"? Plenty of men love using toys on their partner.

OP, I think basic experimentation is the way to go here. There are lots of toys aimed at couples, but they don't work for everybody every single time. If I were you, just starting out, I'd order a few basic items - a small finger vibe, a vibrating penis ring, things like that - and see how you get on. Once you have an idea what kind of sensations you both like best you can graduate to more complex toys.

Enjoy!

Leprachaun

Lolabugs wrote: »

Why don't you try an Ann Summers Party???
You basically call them up and get one of their representatives to call down to your house. Invite a few of your girl friends who are up for a laugh to come down and have a girly night in with a few drinks. Its free!!!
We had one for my friends mothers hen night. Was a right laugh.

The rep brings down toys, cotumes, lubes etc and you get to try them out. She goes through their catalogue with yous and gives you a form which you can order things. Also if you dont want to order anything "mad" infront of your friends, you can at least get the info that you need from the rep and ring her at a diferent stage and order stuff.

She'll also be able to answer any questions that you may have

Heh,I didn't really get that it was a sales rep showing you the products you can buy till half way through that paragraph. When you said "Invite a few of your girl friends who are up for a laugh to come down and have a girly night in with a few drinks",I was like :eek:. Girls ACTUALLY have those kind of parties.:eek:

Then I realised it was just to look at the products for buying.

prinz

shellyboo wrote: »

What sounds odd about it?

The idea of sitting around with your friend and her mother trying out sex toys? I presume she didn't mean actually trying them out... needless to say i've never been to one.:D

i didn't think the idea of the party in general was odd.

Lolabugs

had a right laugh reading some of those replies to the ann summers parties!!!

The rep brings down costumes which you and friends can try on and see if you like them, also she brings down lingerie which you also try on (obviously with your knickers on) ... you can take pics if you want and show the OH later and see what he thinks

She also brings toys which of course you dont physically try LOL

The OP sys that she's "not sure what half the stuff is even for!"
Its a great way to ask questions that she may have about the different products and later have a look through the catalogue with the husband and together they can order.

Just a thought!!!
Had a great laugh at the one I was at.
The parties are free and the hostess gets a discount on her purchases!!

LegacyUser

Miss Fantasia is a great shop for advice, yes they have some pretty extreme stuff, but they have all the mild stuff aswell as everything in between. The assistants in the shop are very helpful aswell.

I went in with my Ex a while ago and they were very helpful. Their used to people coming in asking crazy questions all the time, so there no need to be embarresed at all.

The Ann Summers partys are great also

shapez

Communication is the key here. Talk to one another about what you both like dislike. There are 1000s of online shops for what you are looking for. If you want some tips PM me.

leitrim lad

id love to have a wife like that,,,,,,,,,:D

Latchy

OP Have you tried spin the bottle ?

Wibbs

leitrim lad and latchyco read the charter of this forum, especially the part about unhelpful posting. nay more of this and you will be banned form this forum.

LegacyUser

What do you mean by using a 'rabbit' !!! ???
Surely that is cruelty to innocent animals !
Shame !!!

partyguinness

Is this really appropriate for this forum?

What is the subscription sex forum for??

finbarrk

That fleshlight that someone mentioned is for males, but you could have some fun with it anyway!

leitrim lad

thats a bit harsh, are you not aloud voice your opinion now, i think that woman and her husband need to go to london or amsterdam for a weekend ,the amount of shops full of exciting stuff and the laws in them countries are more broad so you dont feel embarressed , and you never know they might find some toys they like

Joey the lips

You can try the cock rings they are great and they are available everywhere condoms are. The ones you dispose of when your finished.

There is also a vibrator you can get its shaped like a horse shoe its designed to be used when your having sex so both of you get pleasure.

I see in dunnes they now have lube and the bottle is shapped like a penis. Maybe your man can go in one end and the bottle in another if you catch my drift.

Lastly if your on the toy buzz a lot of stuff around the home can be used. Just be careful. It makes for a good laugh when your chopping a parsnip later

Be adventurous! there is loads on line

On the blue pill mod. I dont think this is viagra mod i think its the daft copies. I hear there are placebo's but I dont think i would use them.

Have you ever though of going into a chinese herbal shop and asking them advice?

Its great to see you so adventerous lastly i would say on front of a mirror has alway been a big turn on for me and the moth, She like the in/out thing i just love everything

Enjoy

Latchy

To be honest my post was only ment as light hearted and the Mod in the second post did say '' nobody dare mention the use of Viagra '' when OP I think was refering to a pill which can be bought in any Ann Summer shop , totally legal .

Nevyn

latchyco commenting on a mod action is not permitted, it is considered off topic
and off topic posts can get you banned from this forum.

Nic'name

Ann summers do a good vibrating ball/cock ring combo....tis daycent. And you can pop out the vibrator bit and use it on yourself.

dudara

latchyco and leitrim lad - If you have an issue with any of the moderating decisions taken in this thread, then please take it to PM or post in the HelpDesk or Feedback forum.

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dudara

Jimmy Bottlehead

Ann Summers sell the BullRing (cock ring) which is awesome. I'd advise upgrading to the super bullet though

leitrim lad

is there any of them shops in ireland yet

Nevyn

There is an anne summers shop in dublin and sex shops dotted all over the country.

leitrim lad

thanks i will disgreetlty keep an eye out for one , a shopping trip to such a place in such economic times would indeed spice up the relationship a bit:)

I bought a regular, everyday hat on ebay the other day (nothing sexual about it).

In the package it came with was my order details, a thank you note and a piece of paper saying "why not check out our online store carpetmuncher.co.uk".


Dunno if it'll be of any use to you at all, but it has a lot of stuff on it (from what i seen, i didn't spend much time on it before getting bored).

Worth a look i suppose. (Although i must stress that i didn't really look at the site much, and im sure there are many similar ones out there, so it's worth googling around for better prices, etc.) Handy to be able to look at stuff and get a price range i suppose.