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Loss of erection

  • 23-03-2009 8:07pm
    #1
    gaafan1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭


    hi guys. sort of embarrassing?...what do you do if you all of a sudden loose an erection?....it's realy getting to me.

    please help...i'm in bits


Comments

  • #2
    Jimmy Bottlehead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,122 ✭✭✭✭Jimmy Bottlehead


    I think every guy has this from time to time. I find its worst when I wear condoms. I'm in a long term relationship so we use other methods. Is it only a problem when it comes to putting it on, or after its on?

    Also, don't overthink it... you've as much control over it happening as a woman does over how wet she gets. Just relax and ask for some extra attention to take your mind off it. Works for me! The more you analyse it and wonder about it, the more you'll overthink it and the more likely it is to happen.


  • #3
    gaafan1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭gaafan1


    hi jim. every thing is going grand, i'm as hard as a rock then when i go to put on a condom or enter into her i loose it completely. it's really getting me down, and shes beginning to think that i'm gone off her completely. i'm seriously thinking of getting a tablet or two of viagra just to get me out of this mess i'm in.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Had a *major* problem with this in my younger days, especially when with a girl who was quite attractive (funnily enough). Down to nerves really I suppose, and the fact that I find lots of brands of condoms uncomfortably tight.

    It's a horrible feeling losing a boner. As soon as you start losing it you're thinking "oh no, it's hapenning to me again Why god WHY.... all I want to do is get laid! Why do you mock me so! There's a hot naked chick beside me here and there's nothing I can do about it!" and as soon as you think THAT your semi-stalk wilts like a daisy in the heat of the summer sun (my attempt at being poetic). You feel like a failure in front of a lady and it's robbed you of the very thing that makes you masculine.

    I suspect is entirely in your head, as it was in mine (as opposed to being a medical reason). Viagra mightnt be the best idea as you could become psychologically dependant on it to get a bar. Luckily I solved my problem with the help of a patient, caring and attentive lady and it never happens any more. Also Durex Pleasuremax accomodate a wider member. Such a solution may be just as straightforward for you too. I wish you luck!


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