Orgasms!

sticky29

Hi all,

Am blushing posting this but here goes...

Im female and seem to be able to orgasm v v quickly...like in less than 2-3 minutes (both on my own and with my partner) if I put my mind to it...and if Im v horny before we start sometimes I think I'll come as soon as he enters me...

I try and change position etc etc to try and keep going a bit longer but my clit just seems to be highly sensitive!

Anyone else find that sometimes its over far too soon!!

Feedback from the guys...is this a turn on or should I really try and hold out a bit longer?!

Thanks for your replies in advance

Mr. Incognito

My ex was the same- to be honest never bothered me. It was great in fact.

Just becasue you orgasm doesn't mean you have to stop

Passenger

Sure it's all well and good being a woman as you can go back for seconds and thirds, etc. straight after.

Koushki

That sounds absolutely class tbh.

I'm so jealous. You lucky woman.

Just enjoy!

Wibbs

Passenger wrote: »

Sure it's all well and good being a woman as you can go back for seconds and thirds, etc. straight after.

Depends on the woman. Some women can't for a good while as it's too sensitive in that area. I've been with women who took longer than me to be back up for more.

I would say it's easier to delay orgasm in a highly orgasmic woman than to acheive an orgasm in a woman who has difficulty. Given a choice between the two, speaking as a man I prefer the former.

fifomania

Just enjoy! Be glad!

shellyboo

sticky29 wrote: »

Hi all,

Am blushing posting this but here goes...

Im female and seem to be able to orgasm v v quickly...like in less than 2-3 minutes (both on my own and with my partner) if I put my mind to it...and if Im v horny before we start sometimes I think I'll come as soon as he enters me...

I try and change position etc etc to try and keep going a bit longer but my clit just seems to be highly sensitive!

Anyone else find that sometimes its over far too soon!!

Feedback from the guys...is this a turn on or should I really try and hold out a bit longer?!

Thanks for your replies in advance

I used to be like this, and then I lost it. *sniffle*

So I'm tempted to tell you to appreciate it, but I know how frustrating it can be for your partner.

Is there no way you can continue once you've orgasmed, possibly working towards a second? If not, you may have to start extending your foreplay regime, working more on oral and manual stimualtion for him, and leaving penetrative sex as the big finale, as it were.

Passenger wrote: »

Sure it's all well and good being a woman as you can go back for seconds and thirds, etc. straight after.

This is not even a little bit true.

Passenger

Passenger wrote: »

Sure it's all well and good being a woman as you can go back for seconds and thirds, etc. straight after.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Depends on the orgasms themselves as well - some leave you too sensitive to go for more without a few seconds break at least, some you can just keep going.

cantdecide

Assuming it doesn't affect your performance too much, from a bloke's point of view, it's great...

dny123456

for a bloke... its great. Real ego boost, even though its probably nothing to do with them!

shellyboo

cantdecide wrote: »

Assuming it doesn't affect your performance too much, from a bloke's point of view, it's great...

dny123456 wrote: »

for a bloke... its great. Real ego boost, even though its probably nothing to do with them!

Guys, do you not think if your gf could only have sex for 5 minutes at a time that you'd get frustrated? This is a serious problem for the OP and her partner. If it was 'great' she wouldn't be posting in PI about it.

If it's a case that she's too sensitive after orgasm to continue then it's just as much a problem as premature ejaculation would be for a guy. I hope someone has some good, practical advice for the OP... it's a tricky situation.

Nevyn

First of all congratuations on being orgasmic and being able to achieve orgasm on your own
and with your partner.
When you are by yourself do you stop after you have that first climax ?
Or can you find different ways to stimulate yourself so that you can build on the orgasm
which as just happened ?
I would suggest that if you are not already that you work on your pelvic floor muscles
clenching and unclenching them as kengel excerises.
Trying doing this as your climax grows and it can give you better control over when
your climax occurs.

Joey the lips

i am laughing so much you would not believe it. My OH is exactly like this and she always thought she was strange. She is that bad sometimes she doe not even like fore play down below.

She puts it down to the fact that when we started sex many moons ago it was dry sex so her clit stimulates very easy.

Enjoy it. jasus love it. My o/h noticed different positions actually help her slow the feeling down by reducing the feeling in certain areas

Eg Doggy style does not help my OH climax but she pops her cloggs if doing it facing a mirror

I am really telling to much so I will stop and say enjoy it and enjoy looking for positions to slow it down.

Tip: I heard the female condom gives a bit of insulation against this. but why deprive her!

cantdecide

shellyboo wrote: »

....If it was 'great' she wouldn't be posting in PI about it...

We can't be sure exactly what her motivation to start the thread is at this stage. No one is trivializing her situation. She doesn't mention that a quick orgasm puts her out of the game for a while. If it does, then I'm sure it must wear thin but that's not what she's asked.


Her question was;

sticky29 wrote: »

...Feedback from the guys...is this a turn on or should I really try and hold out a bit longer...

If I could make a girl orgasm just by entering, I'd be pretty smug even if I knew it was more her than me. She seemed more self conscious about and if that is the case, my opinion stands.

Joey the lips

That was my take up as well cantdecide. She is wondering more if its a turn off than a turn on. Personally I would not mind I would just focus on other areas more!

sticky29

Hi Guys and Gals,

Thanks for all your replies!

To be clear, I can continue having sex no problems after I have climaxed and on occasion I have had a second orgasm but sometimes, I do find im so sensitive I know I won't be able to climax again....

I have discovered that if I change positions (i.e. I can last longer doggy style as long as he doesn't get too hot with his hands in front!!) I can hold off that first orgasm a bit longer as that one is always the most delicious but sometimes the temptation is just too much and I just can't wait any longer and then its all over (for me) in a few short minutes as I just can't seem to stop it once I go over a certain point!

So i'll give those kegel excersizes a go, i do them sometimes but probably need to do them more regularly and maybe that might give me more control...

Joey the Lips thanks for the doogy style facing the mirror suggestion...think I;ll try that one this eve;) thou too be honest has me horny already so won't hold out any hopes I'll last any longer!!!

Im hoping my partnet finds it an ego boost as one poster mentioned!!
:oThanks again for the repies