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  • 19-03-2009 6:46pm
    #1
    Ave Sodalis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭


    I will keep this short. Just ask if ya wanna know any more.


    The thing is, I really like this guy I work with. But, I think his friend might like me.!

    Is there any chance with him now.?:(


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  • #2
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Yeah, you still have a chance. Some people do follow the "my friend likes them so they're off limits" policy, but some don't.

    No real way to know for sure unless you make a move.


  • #3
    collegegal
    Closed Accounts Posts: 137 ✭✭collegegal


    my advice....go for the guy you like....if his friend hasnt made a move on you then he obviously insnt interested!


  • #4
    Ay Cee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 905 ✭✭✭Ay Cee


    Go for it!
    Nothing to lose, so why not?


  • #5
    CathyMoran
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,458 ✭✭✭CathyMoran


    I was that girl a good few years ago - I got my man :D Any man that I have spoken to about this issue has said that they would let the better man win...good luck!


  • #6
    Ay Cee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 905 ✭✭✭Ay Cee


    Yup. It's not as big a deal for guys. There's no blood bond saying he will never ask you out.
    Make yourself happy.


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  • #7
    Lucy Lu
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 2,407 ✭✭✭Lucy Lu


    You should ask him out if you want to. Whats meant to be will be.

    Good luck.


  • #8
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Well ask out the guy *you* like, not the friend :)
    No harm in going for it hun, worst case scenario is the guy says no.
    good luck :)


  • #9
    Ave Sodalis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Another problem... he was told I like him but is refusing to belive it. I dont know if that was just his reaction or he really doesnt wanna know

    Also if he does say no, what about work.?


  • #10
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Well you could be right, it might be that he just doesn't think you'd like him of all people, or that he's possibly not interested. Thing is, if he's been told you like him - then you asking him out isn't going to make work any more difficult. You're not asking anything deep, just a date/a drink/a meal... if he says no, then brush yourself off and keep your head high. Don't let someone saying no make things awkward in work. You'll just know where you stand


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