Boyfriend's penis size

LegacyUser

Started going out with a really nice guy a couple of months ago, haven't had sex yet but have done basically everything else. There's one small 'problem' - he has a very small penis. Now I've only been with 2 other guys and neither one was huge, but big enough like. This new guy I'd say is under 4 inches and it isn't thick either. I'm not shallow but sex is very important to me and I do need to be satisfied. But I really like this guy. Can sex be equally good even if the guy isn't well endowed?

LegacyUser

Lesbians have sex lives, and they have no penises at all. There are plenty of other things he can do for you if regular plug-and-socket sex isn't working.

Nevyn

Try a range of different positions which will angle the vagina to make it shorter.

Zorba

Will delete the comment before it gets me banned !

Unless i'm allowed mention strap ons, if so i'll repost the comment.

Affable

Try going on top, or some more oral? Spice things up with some humiliation?

STUBBORNGIRL

Can i just say i have been with both Big and small and if you ask me i would prefer small! no joke! i have had brill sex with the guy who was well endowed but no orgasm!! i have had equally as good sex with the guy who was small (3inchs) and he made me orgasm! i can only chalk it down to him being able to enter me fully and grind against my Clit unlike the well endowed guy who nearly broke through me! kinda painful if he went in fully but we tried all positions! The small guy only really could do missionary! Top or behind just didnt work!!!

What i say and i am sure many will say - it is not the size of the drive that matters but the motion of the ocean!!

Dont worry about something that hasnt occurred yet as you will prob make it unenjoyable for yourself if you are anxious about it being rubbish!

Good luck op and remember Practice makes perfect!!

tony1kenobi

4 inches is massive.....just ask......me.

Joey the lips

They say size does not matter and the adverage is 5" so 4" is close enough. I have the opposite problem. I get a cold cause 5" of my 9" sticks out and get a draft

Dont be worried about 4". Tracy cox(What a name for a georgous sex expert) has a feature on ivillage.com about small manhoods.(As well as tall, fat, unfit and fit men)

when we started going out we done a lot of experimenting and not much penatration so dont be hung up on believing that size matters in this instance. I also agree with the posters ananysis on her two fella's one with a small and one with a large manhood. All the nerve endings anre at the outside of a women but I also think women "Like it deep" so her orgasim can squeeze it when it starts. There is positions for this none more famous then putting a pillow under your back in the missionary.

You might find that you fella is more open to oral and different exp positions because of this. Be careful but! If you start major exp's your fella might notice you think there is something wrong and no amount of positions will cure the phycological effects of this!

So you really need to thread carefully

Wibbs

Zorba and tony1kenobi helpful posts only please. Read the charter.

Zorba

Wibbs wrote: »

Zorba and tony1kenobi helpful posts only please. Read the charter.

Ok nuff said

Bottle_of_Smoke

Joey the lips wrote: »

They say size does not matter and the adverage is 5" so 4" is close enough. I have the opposite problem. I get a cold cause 5" of my 9" sticks out and get a draft

Thought the average for white guys is 6"?

OP - well its up to you, if you aren't sexually satisfied with him and it means so much to you you might be better off ending it early. And really dont say why.

shellyboo

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »

Thought the average for white guys is 6"?

Reported average is 5 - 6.5 apparently. That's reported, so you have to allow for ego I'd say 5 inches is around about average, and plenty enough to be going on with.

However, OP, if you feel already like he can't satisfy you, well, that doesn't bode well. You may feel unbelievably shallow, but if you think this is going tp cause further frustration and problems then you should end it now.

cantdecide

If you think it's too much of a sticking point please don't give the guy a complex about it. This is one of those occasions where honesty is not the best policy...

LegacyUser

You haven't even had sex had with him yet so for all you know he could be a god in the sack. If he is small and knows it he'll more than likely compensate in someother way. Think you should test drive the car before you call it a write off tbh

LegacyUser

Yeah I know we can do oral etc but the actual sex is still quite important, no? Why do so many girls like big penises if the size doesn't matter?

sugarbaker01

I thought i was quite average at 7 1/4 inches but still got complaints of penetration being too painful.... such is life

dudara

@sugarbaker01 - as you are a new poster to Personal Issues, you might want to read the Forum Charter at the top of the forum.

Off-topic posts are not allowed. In addition, you raised a zombie thread, which I am now closing.

dudara