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The "Exclusive" Question!

  • 09-03-2009 9:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Been seeing a girl for about 6/7 weeks now and I really like her. So far its just been pretty casual, been on a few dates and been over to each others house etc but we havent had the talk about being exclusive or even asked has either been with anyone else in between. The thing is I like her enough to want to make a go of this but wandering should I mention this or will it freak her out or maybe wait see if she mentions it. She was only a month out of a 3 year relationship when I met her so dont really want to scare her off if she isnt after anything serious.


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  • #2
    Sinall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 813 ✭✭✭Sinall


    Let things progress naturally. The "exclusive" chat seems to be a bit of an american phenomenon.

    Let things develop for a while and you should both have a clearer idea of how you feel. If you have been seeing each other for 6/7 weeks you are both obviously into each other.


  • #3
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    If you want to bring it up then bring it up.
    Find away to bring a converstaion around to it, as in saying to her that you would hate
    to think of anyone else kissing her and you'd like her lips just to be for you not any other
    fella and then you have a converstaion about it. tis easily brougth up and you know where you stand.


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Agree with Thaed - casually bring it up - it's best that ye both know where ye stand.
    There's been PIs in here where a guy or girl says that their non official other half kissed someone but it meant nothing, and that they weren't 'exclusive' etc..
    NOT saying either of you are going to be kissing anyone else. But I just mean if ye both like each other, then saying you want to be exclusive shouldn't scare her. It's not asking for marriage or anything like that, just a simple 'I want you just for me' type thing :)


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