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Male domination?

  • 08-03-2009 4:18pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I met a man for the second time last night and I really liked him. But towards the end of the evening he admited to me that he liked the idea of being dominated by a woman. Being her slave and her being his mistress. Not with pain or anything just a small bit of punishment if he does something wrong.

    I wasn't put off by this, a bit the opposite to be honest but I have no idea where to 'learn' about what to do. I know that sounds silly but I have a really bad imagination and was never into roleplay or anyhing just for that reason.

    I've had a look online and all I seem to bring up is list of where to find mistresses which isn't helping me with what I need. I have just been and ordered some books from amazon but I'm seeing him again on Tuesday and would like to surprise him with something.

    Has anyone any idea's or maybe website recomendations that I could look at?


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  • #2
    Mulan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 240 ✭✭Mulan


    I have a 36" hurley. You can have that if ya want to give him a few taps with it. It hasn't been used much as I'm from cork.

    Sorry
    I couldn't resist.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Going unregged here so that if any of the links aren't suitable the mods don't have to post them.

    There is an upcoming workshop you might find extremely helpful coming up soon:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/workshopness/elementary-floggage/

    The lady who runs it is a dear personal friend and an exceptionally respect, reality and safety conscious person, not to mention absolutely hilarious fun (IMHO).

    There is an event you might like to bring this guy to (I think one is coming up very soon, if you have time to meet the dress code requirements - if you want advice post here and I will do my best, as, I feel sure, will others):

    http://www.nimhneach.ie

    You will meet a lot of very safe friendly people for whom Domination is just another, everyday aspect of life, who will be happy to advise you, and you may have the opportunity to observe real life domination (as well as dance and have fun).

    There are also, at least, two mailing lists on yahoo (remember to create an anonymous ID before joining :) TOO MANY forget ):

    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BDSMIreland
    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/irishBDSMtalk

    Most important of all enjoy yourselves, and each other...
    :D


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for that really helpful answer Mulan. You are obviously very young and inexperienced in relationships. It's people like you that make people like him live in 'secrecy'.

    But thanks for those links from the unregged poster. I actually met him at a fetish club so we know we are both into this. We have spoken about what he likes and doesn't like but I'd like to be a bit more imaginative without needing prompting hence the post.

    I'm really looking forward to exploring this with him. I guess I'll wait for my Amazon order to arrive.


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