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Help writing a card....

  • 18-02-2009 2:47pm
    #1
    05D
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭


    Ok so.... cut a very long story of paranoia short.I was checking my boyfriend phone for txt messages from a certain girl, we have been going out 3 yrs. Basically the issue has been sorted out between me and this other girl, but now there is an issue between me and my BF and I am trying to find a way of saying sorry. He thinks I don't trust him but it wasn't him I didn't trust was her. So I have bought an I'm sorry card but I am stuck on what to write in it......Need ideas!!!!!!!Thanks05D


Comments

  • #2
    sardineta
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 145 ✭✭sardineta


    In any difficult written communication, always remember the key 3: sincerity, brevity and tact.


  • #3
    LorraineL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 138 ✭✭LorraineL


    Are you sure a card is the right way to say sorry for something like this? It would be hard to put down what you want to say in writing. Maybe just saying sorry in person would be better, it'd let you explain what you want to him without any misunderstandings.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    05D wrote: »
    it wasn't him I didn't trust was her.

    You're right to be saying sorry for going through his phone but i don't understand why you would look at his phone if you did trust him and didn't trust her. If you really do trust your bf then whether or not you trust her is a moot point.

    To put it bluntly (and I really don't mean this unkindly as I've been in your shoes when I was younger) whether or not another girl is after your guy is irrelevant if you trust him to be faithful to you.


  • #5
    nowimtalking
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 143 ✭✭nowimtalking


    I know i havent been the best partner latley, i needed reassurance that you loved me and i went to terrible means to find out. I know that it isnt the best way but it was the only way, I dont trust her but i trust you with all my heart. I want our relationship to be right and to be right i have to learn to trust that even if she would come onto you, you would refuse.
    People say we have all the time in the world but we dont our time is limited and we need to enjoy our time together so if you can find it in your heart to forgive me i would be grateful. I promise that i will try as hard as you to make it work.
    Sorry!

    But really you should write your own, it needs to be from yourself as it is you who wants it to work with him. If it sounds cheesy its right, thats how romance is supposed to be.


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