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Feel weird after sex

  • 17-02-2009 9:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi. Im going out with my gf almost 9 years now. Time has gone so fast. Since the beginning of the relationship I have always questioned my love. But at the same time I love her company etc.
    The thing is that after we make Love I feel weird, like I want to be alone. I dont want to snuggle up to her like she does to me. I feel lonely or something, its hard to explain.
    Is this normal for guys to feel like this after a session.


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  • #2
    RuailleBuaille
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 521 ✭✭✭RuailleBuaille


    Unregisteredhju wrote: »
    Hi. Im going out with my gf almost 9 years now. Time has gone so fast. Since the beginning of the relationship I have always questioned my love. But at the same time I love her company etc.
    The thing is that after we make Love I feel weird, like I want to be alone. I dont want to snuggle up to her like she does to me. I feel lonely or something, its hard to explain.
    Is this normal for guys to feel like this after a session.


    Have you heard of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_little_death ?


    Do you ever feel like cuddling after sex or is it always as you described?

    TBH,
    I'd be more concerned about the fact you've spent 9 years with somebody you don't love (if you've spent 9 years questioning it, it ain't love IMHO).


  • #3
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    I don't think that is related to La petite mort but lack of intimacy with your partner.
    If you don't feel like you are in love with her then why are you stil with her ?


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP .. you are fooling yourself and leading this girl on in the process. You use a term like after you 'make Love' and then in the same breath a term like 'after a session'. Admit it you just want to get your rocks off and fall asleep or watch TV. Just fess up and stop lying to your g/f and cut her loose so she can find a guy who really cares and knows the true meaning of love.


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