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How to sort out my thinking

  • 16-02-2009 8:50pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I've been going out with a girl for about 6 months now. But everytime she goes out I can't help but think she is cheating on me. I've been hurt by every girl I've went out with but this one is different, I feel it. How do I sort this out? if I don't it will split us and destroy me. Help


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  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Hi,

    Have you actually mentioned your fears to her? If not, you should, but you should also mention the past hurts so that she can at least understand why you are fearful of her cheating on you. That said - yes - this has the potential to destroy your relationship. Don't laeve it too late to sort it out. Face up to it right now and get everything out in the open. If talking to her about it doesn't appease your mind, then you should consider going to your GP or a counsellor. Perhaps the 'trust' issue is more deep-rooted than you think.

    Kevin


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