Cant stop ****

Kauto

I think i have a real problem. I have the urge to **** at least 6 to 7 times a day including when in work. Its really getting me down. I dont know what to do.

The Corinthian

1. Learn self-control
2. See a doctor

Funkyzeit

The Corinthian wrote: »

1. Learn self-control
2. See a doctor

nonsense - keep it going - doing no-one any harm and perhaps yourself some good... when your old and grey you'll miss it...

Wagon

Kauto wrote: »

I think i have a real problem. I have the urge to **** at least 6 to 7 times a day including when in work. Its really getting me down. I dont know what to do.

Take up a sport or some physical activity that could exaust you. Do it a few nights a week. Should keep it under control.

I have to say, 6 or 7 times a day is quite an achievement!

Kauto

Ah its gets sore after a while, but its like im on a mission. After the first 3 or 4 there is no pleasure after that. Just seeing how high on the wall i can go.

petethebrick

You're young but you are past the age were you should be **** that much. It's not healthy to do so (mentally). One either in the evening before sleep or first thing in the morning should be plenty - just have some self control.

Kauto

Am on study leave not much else to do and any excuse not to study!!1

LegacyUser

Kauto wrote: »

including when in work. .

that's something that we girls (2 girls, 12 boys in work) have always wondered. do men do this at work? It's bad enough having to share the loo with the lads without imagining that too ! Would you say all men do it at work ?

Nevyn

garthv banned fro a month.

Nevyn

It's become a habit a way of indulging yourself and you need to break the pattern and get some else control before you become a chronic masterbater.

Try going for a walk when you get the urge or doing something else.

Motley Crue

Kauto wrote: »

I think i have a real problem. I have the urge to **** at least 6 to 7 times a day including when in work. Its really getting me down. I dont know what to do.

Seriously man, Im sorry to sound so unforgiving, but this cannot be a serious problem. You obviously just like **** and have to tell yourself to stop putting your hand down your pants...especially in work!

Masturbation, porn, and other sexually-based activities can be considered an addiction under certain circumstances. Some treatment programs and therapists note that using masturbation as a way to fall asleep or as a way to control anxiety define a masturbation as an addiction.

However, moderate use of masturbation or other sexual activity for relaxation or stress relief cannot actually be called an addiction. Some religious organizations refer to any sexual activity outside of marriage as an addiction. While masturbation or sex outside of marriage may meet the religion’s viewpoint of addiction, it doesn’t make the activity technically an addiction.

As long as you’re not hurting yourself (or anyone else), healthy sexual activity is not a problem like an addiction is.

To be an actual masturbation addiction, porn addiction, or other sexual addiction, the sexual activities need to meet the following criteria:

The activity needs to be problematic for you and or others – i.e. it creates a disruption to your normal life. If you can’t go to work or meet appointments and other life responsibilities, as a direct result of your sexual thoughts or activities, than it’s an addiction.
If the behavior affects your ability to have normal relationships with others than it could be an addiction.
Constant thoughts related to getting your next fix of sexual activity and/or constant conversations about the activities

aare

Craving the moderators indulgence, as this does seem something of a medical emergency, try <SNip: NSFW>.

How often you get to relieve your frustrations would then depend on who you hand the key to...

I would personally give you once a week as long as my car was washed and polished and the lawn was cut (in due season) ...but I am a big softie...



Seriously...if you feel you are "on a mission", rather than "taking joy in your own hands", you might be able to relate to some of the people who are comfortable with wearing these devices...and you might learn something useful from looking up anything they have said on the subject?

I think the fact that you are posting this here at all is a clear indicator that you have some issue you need to resolve.

Nevyn

That is drastic and not helpful there are plenty of other options before the op would
have to consider going to such lenghts.

The Corinthian

Funkyzeit wrote: »

nonsense - keep it going - doing no-one any harm and perhaps yourself some good... when your old and grey you'll miss it...

Sorry, but 6 to 7 times a day including when in work is not healthy - more correctly it is at a level where it actually would seriously interfere with day to day living.

The solution may be one of self control - throw away your porn and learn to do unrelated things. If not, it may be a medical issue, in which case seeing a doctor may be in order.

Masturbation is not a bad thing, but if it begins to dictate your lifestyle, then you know that there's something terribly wrong.

aare

Thaedydal wrote: »

That is drastic and not helpful there are plenty of other options before the op would
have to consider going to such lenghts.

I think you are misunderstanding, and, if so, I had better make myself clearer, before the OP does too (at which even my mind is boggling!)!

It is only lightheartedly that I am suggesting he puts himself under "lock and key" (I had NO IDEA anyone would take such a suggestion seriously! It something I regard as an unhealthy paraphillia unless done VERY much for fun), but he might find some useful perspectives on his problem from among the people who choose to do, or fantasise about.

Those perpectives are, comparatively, extreme, but they are similar, and how often do we find answers by looking as more extreme versions of our problems?

Nevyn

aare banned for a week as PI is not for non serious suggestions
and for arguing about a mod action on thread.

Kauto

Sorry folks just back from the jacks and yes you have guessed it another ****! Nearly blinded myself this time. Note to self: Must wear protective goggles next time

Homer

Snyper is that you??!!

Seriously though, definitely think you are just trolling now. If you have a genuine problem and would like help then by all means we are here to try and help but I can't help but feel from your working that you are yanking our collective chains.. Pardon the pun!

Nevyn

Homer use the report post function please rather then saying someone is a troll in thread.

Kauto banned from PI for 3 months this is your second ban the last was lifed only a few days ago and I will be looking to make this a permaban unless you can convice an smod
this account is more then just a trolling account.

Partizan

This one's for you OP.

Kevin Bloody Wilson
I Gave Up ****

I give **** this morning
I never thought that I could
I'm feelin' better already
And this time I'm off it for good

When I first wanked, I's though I's so clever
And Gall of me mates, they were mugs
Thought I was the first
Bloke here on Earth
Who'd ever played with his slug

It was me own little secret
And I never told anyone
And the feelin' I got
The first time I shot
Was like chooks flyin' out o' me bum

I'm givin' up ****...tomorrow
I never thought that I could
Then I won't get these bad headaches
And then I'll be off it for good

I've wanked in some unlikely places
The shower, the beach and the pool
A dunny, a tram and the pictures
And biology classes at school

And once me grandmother caught me
Wankin' meself in me room
But to her surprise
I just shut me eyes
And imagined her a standin' there nude

I'm givin' up ****...Tuesday
I never thought that I could
And then I won't skwint like I do now
And then I'll be off it for good

Me Dad says it's gonna take willpower
There really is no easy trick
I honestly thought I'd need surgery
To help get me hand off me dick

Me Dad's been a great inspiration
He really has been a great help
He knows what I go through
And just what to do
'Cause he give it up yesterday himself

So I'm givin' up **** next Friday
I never thought that I could
And I'll throw away me thick glasses
And then I'll be off it for good

So if you say you don't ****, you're a liar
And a fool if you say that you do
So next time you see, Prince Charles on TV
Remember he **** himself too

So I'm givin' up **** come Christmas
I never thought that I could
And I'll sell me dog and me white cane
And then I'll be off it for good
And I'll throw away me dark glasses
And then I'll be off it for good