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  • 07-02-2009 10:40pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    unreg'n for this one.
    i met this girl a good while back, probably a year and a half ago. we kicked it off pretty well when we first met, and got a bit intimate too. i could bore you with all the details but to make a long story short we came to the conclusion that we really like each other, but made nothing much of it because she was only her for 2 weeks. we parted ways when she went back to Spain and have kept in touch ever since. on the internet( msn messenger, facebook) we are very open and talk about very personal things which we really enjoy because we like to give advice and support in times of need. she is coming back to Dublin soon for a visit with friends and has told me all about her plans, and has involved me in a few of them. we are both single and we have been somewhat teasing/flirting with each other, although we have never been open with each other when talking about a future, etc.
    im not looking for a sex crazed time, or a booty call with this woman when she comes back but can i expect a level a intimacy with her when i see her, without firstly having to combat any awkwardness?
    any advice is very much appreciated


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  • #2
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    Its been 2 years and people change. So I imagine that you shouldnt expect intimacy but rather let her take the lead and see what happens.


  • #3
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    CDfm wrote: »
    Its been 2 years and people change. So I imagine that you shouldnt expect intimacy but rather let her take the lead and see what happens.

    Might be a missed opportunity if it turns out she's on www.boards.es and got the same advice...

    OP - don't "assume", but if it feels like there's a click, then try your case, but subtly....

    Best of luck!


  • #4
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    CDfm wrote: »
    Its been 2 years and people change. So I imagine that you shouldnt expect intimacy but rather let her take the lead and see what happens.
    Agreed though I would say you take the lead and see what happens.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #5
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    When its any other goal, you apply logic, right?

    In this case antisipation is causing you anxiety. Chances are, she feels the same. Be warm and affectionate from the start. She will be so relieved that the ice was broken, and you come out the hero ;)


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