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Couldn't be arsed going out?

  • 07-02-2009 12:18pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well.

    In my late 20's. Have a good job. Had a few relationships in last few years. I'm fairly sporty, look after myself. Do some travelling, enjoy life well enough I think.

    why is that I do not feel the need to go out socialising much? I mean i go out for a few drinks with the friends, but once its nightclub time I head for home. I'm always then hearing the stories of what they get up to. They mostly have gfs so i'm often the odd one out in company.

    Now I'd like to meet a nice woman to spend time with and see how things develop, but i am just so lacking motivation the last six months or so.

    Any advice? Cheers


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Chat up women during the day. You only live once, just do it.

    Opener; Hey, you're so cute I had to come over and say hi for a sec.


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
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    You seem fairly outgoing. There are more places to meet peple than in night clubs. Just think of other places you go, or other things you do, and if women are at those places, too. What about introducing yourself to your friends' friends?

    It's nothing I'd worry about. So long as it's not a problem thats really making you suffer i'd just leave it be and i'm sure that sometime you'll meet a girl and it'll all happen naturally.


  • #4
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    It's probably because nightclubs are shít.

    I love going out for drinks with my friends and all that, but I refuse point blank to go clubbing. If they decide to go to a club, I just go home. You're not missing out on much, imo.


  • #5
    SpitfireIV
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,509 ✭✭✭SpitfireIV


    Aye, pretty much what the others have said really. Just find some sort of an outlet that you are comfortable with, some sort of a club or society where you'd have a good chance of meeting people of a similar mindset!

    Clubs are over rated to be honest, if you enjoy having to scream at the top of your voice to try and talk to someone and enjoy being in the company of boozed up and terribly annoying spanners then a club is the place to be :P

    You certainly arent alone!


  • #6
    stateofflux
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,563 ✭✭✭stateofflux


    its ireland thats why....im from dublin and it is a sad alco fuelled mix of fat alco irish girls, std riddled brits & miscellaneous scum.rest of country not much better.
    if you did want to go out every week here it would mean you are a sad ****er...i went to berlin a while back and it was amazing cos not everyone is obsessed with alcohol...even in clubs....i ended up going out 7 days in a row in berlin because it was really fun and i met loads of girls just talking......your best bet over here is probably join a yoga club where you will be the only guy!...just don't tell anyone you are'nt there for the yoga:)


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