Sparks.

When your really attracted to someone, how do you feel?

spinandscribble

flushed and dizzy. nervous and giddy.

jester77

Magnetic!

all of the above, breathless, heart jumping...

Raze_them_all

Hmmm do you mean around them in general or during sexytime?

spinandscribble

i love that feeling where your hearts racing and you are like "whats happening?" and then you realise you fancy them

Wibbs

Interested in how they think, their hopes their opinions, want to be around them more, horny, excited by their presence and a little down at their absence. I've never had the spark, hit by a ton of bricks thing really. Instant sexual attraction yes, but if they were incompatible that died quick, but anything more took time and built up.

monkeyfudge

Inferior of course!

Wibbs

spinandscribble wrote: »

i love that feeling where your hearts racing and you are like "whats happening?" and then you realise you fancy them

Really?. Never had that. I knew I fancied them, but the thought came before the heart racing, so I already knew I fancied them. I've never been even close to being caught unawares. People are different that's for sure.:D

Raze_them_all

Raze_them_all wrote: »

Hmmm do you mean around them in general or during sexytime?

Both, all views and expierences welcome.
I'm also interested in often people get that feeling.

Oryx

Quite often tongue tied, clumsy and utterly stupid. So if I meet ya and I stammer and trip up, youre game on

Generally if I see someone I fancy.. the feelings are pretty base. Horniness. Otherwise, what Wibbs said.

spinandscribble

Wibbs wrote: »

Really?. Never had that. I knew I fancied them, but the thought came before the heart racing, so I already knew I fancied them. I've never been even close to being caught unawares. People are different that's for sure.:D

well i'm aware when someones attractive but theres a difference between that and fancying them. its usually when i'm not suppose to be looking around, either self imposed singledom or in a relationship. so then i avoid them like the plague if i'm with someone or go after them if i'm single.

Wibbs

spinandscribble wrote: »

well i'm aware when someones attractive but theres a difference between that and fancying them.

Gotcha. What I meant was I've never been surprised if you know what I mean. I've never known someone thought she was attractive, but then one day gone Wow:eek: I fancy her.

As for feelings in sexytime; I would say I want to possess them completely, be part of them, damn near mentally liquidise them and drink them in. Very animalistic for me anyway. Mouth goes dry and then the other way, every part of my body wants to touch every part of theirs. Now love type sexy time would be that and so much more, trust, intimacy and losing myself with them.

cson

I don't suffer from vertigo...

orestes

Have never had that instant eyes meet across a bar falling in love kind of thing.

Normally when I first meet someone I don't feel anything like that, then after about an hour or two of chatting to them something clicks in me and I suddenly realise "oh shit, I've got a crush", this moment of clarity usually occurs after the person in question says something that makes me laugh my ass off, sense of humour seems to be the clincher for me

spinandscribble

Wibbs wrote: »

Gotcha. What I meant was I've never been surprised if you know what I mean. I've never known someone thought she was attractive, but then one day gone Wow:eek: I fancy her.

i dunno, i guess i'm weird lol. my mind and heart are a second behind eachother :P
i guess theres been times where i've gone "wow" because i see a new side to them thats made me reevaluate them.

nylon

Wibbs wrote: »

As for feelings in sexytime; I would say I want to possess them completely, be part of them, damn near mentally liquidise them and drink them in. Very animalistic for me anyway. Mouth goes dry and then the other way, every part of my body wants to touch every part of theirs. Now love type sexy time would be that and so much more, trust, intimacy and losing myself with them.

Definitely.

When I'm attracted to someone, my stomach tingles just from standing beside them, from catching their eye. I tend to blush and babble.

When I really desire someone, the feeling can be overpowering- I want to consume them entirely, come close to losing control. It can be almost aggressive... mmm...

Phew... (calms self down)

spinandscribble

haha this threads put me in a good mood. reminds me of how great it is to properly fancy someone, can't wait for my next crush.

brianthebard

Wibbs wrote: »

Gotcha. What I meant was I've never been surprised if you know what I mean. I've never known someone thought she was attractive, but then one day gone Wow:eek: I fancy her.

Has happened me before, its pretty cool. How I react to fancying someone depends on who they are a lot of the time, if they were someone with some authority I tend to go inside myself, if its like a woman I met in a bar a while ago*, then I can't seem to break eye contact with them, and a little bit of me wants to go howl at the moon or something.








*nothing happened.

LolaLuv

Wibbs wrote: »

Interested in how they think, their hopes their opinions, want to be around them more, horny, excited by their presence and a little down at their absence. I've never had the spark, hit by a ton of bricks thing really. Instant sexual attraction yes, but if they were incompatible that died quick, but anything more took time and built up.

This exactly. I never had the spark thing, either.

spinandscribble

spinandscribble wrote: »

haha this threads put me in a good mood. reminds me of how great it is to properly fancy someone, can't wait for my next crush.

3 months in and my heart still races and breath goes

CathyMoran

lust - if I am near them I just want to grab them and kiss them and do more...
true love - they make me smile no matter how bad my day is when I see them and I want to hug them and have sex with them...bit akward when we are in work but we hold out until we get home!

The first time I saw my husband was two years before we really talked but the big thing was that I remembered seeing him for the first time, it is like it was in slow motion, I was instantly attracted to him and remember saying to my mum that night that I had seen a very attractive man. It is the only time that has happened to me. He remembers me too

DubLass

spinandscribble wrote: »

i love that feeling where your hearts racing and you are like "whats happening?" and then you realise you fancy them

...... and cue the giveaway blush

MJOR

its that feeling whereby you want to climb into their skin!

brianthebard

DubLass wrote: »

...... and cue the giveaway blush

Girls never blush with me.

Blush_01

To be honest, me blushing is nothing unusual. I'm usually fairly sure I like someone if I'm completely paranoid that they think I'm staring at them. Pathetic!

monkeyfudge

brianthebard wrote: »

Girls never blush with me.

In the past I've been capable of triggering rashes... that's sort of like a blush..

Heisenberg.

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Abi

Ive never been shy, so the looking away and heart beating in the chest never happened- mores the pity. Reason being, if I met a guy who was a bit shy it went either one of two ways. Happy I was chatty as it helped put him at ease, or felt threatened.

What I do feel though, is confident because Im chatty, and ravenously horny. Thats genuinely it.

Censorsh!t

It took one night of camping at Rock Werchter to fall for my boyfriend. He had been left behind by his friends so hung around with my friends as he knew them too. And by the end of the night...i had that feeling where you cant stop thinking about them, you feel nervous, you try tell yourself "dont fall for them because youll get hurt".
You're so excited and nervous when you talk to them. You feel sick with butterflies when you're going to meet up with them. You feel depressed and stupid when you get the feeling they dont like you.

banshee_bones

wow...... reading this thread has made me realise it has been a lonnnng time since iv felt any of that, or anything like that about anyone....
damn thats sad....

guess i dont feel like that at first, takes a while...for that...

i-cant-stand-being-away-from-you-i want-to-look-at-you-all-day-

sort of thing.....

dr.bollocko

I get the shakes real bad. I think it comes across as cute.
Still do sometimes.

Nevyn

Wibbs wrote: »

I would say I want to possess them completely, be part of them, damn near mentally liquidise them and drink them in. Very animalistic for me anyway. Mouth goes dry and then the other way, every part of my body wants to touch every part of theirs.

Ha, so your a Vore that explains it.

Wibbs

Had to look that one up. Yep sounds about right, minus the fava beans, but dibs on the chianti.

Agent Smith

The Scientist wrote: »

This video sums up how i feel...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4

God damm it

GirlInterrupted

Warm and tingly at the initial attraction, and later on it would be longing, with a desire to be connected in every way with the other. Subsumed, lost, and drowning in each other in an intimate way. Hard to explain really.

fits

Censorsh!t wrote: »

You're so excited and nervous when you talk to them. You feel sick with butterflies when you're going to meet up with them. You feel depressed and stupid when you get the feeling they dont like you.

so true...

For me, when the eyes meet, sometimes I just want to dissolve in that gaze and stay there. also get the butterfly feeling too. and moodiness.

The Scientist

The Scientist wrote: »

This video sums up how i feel...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4

BHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!:D

DubLass

brianthebard wrote: »

Girls never blush with me.

Awwwhhhhhhh

Wibbs

fits wrote: »

so true...

For me, when the eyes meet, sometimes I just want to dissolve in that gaze and stay there. also get the butterfly feeling too. and moodiness.

All good and welcome but the last bit?......

panda100

The feeling you get when you know you've met someone you really fancy is the best feeling in the world!

Twice in my life I have kissed a guy and upon kissing them it was almost electric. The butterflies in your stomach just explode and you get this wonderful tingly feeling around them all the time.
The best is when Its reciprocated and you both have the tingly feeling in your stomach when your around each other.

Also when they touch you, even just an inncoent brush of the hand when your waiting in the line for cinema tickets or something, the hairs on the back of your neck stand up and you want them to touch you again and again.

beertons

^Can totally agree with everything you described there. I still get butterflies after a year. She does too.

brianthebard

I had that electric kiss before too! mindblowing. *sighs*

Nevyn

Yes there is a list of reactions and behaviours, no I am not sharing.

Censorsh!t

panda100 wrote: »

Twice in my life I have kissed a guy and upon kissing them it was almost electric. The butterflies in your stomach just explode and you get this wonderful tingly feeling around them all the time.

I remember once i was kinda drunk...and i couldnt actually believe it was happening... and i was so scared and happy and excited and "omfggggzzz"

K-9

Yep, the butterfly feeling and the anticipation for me. It really is lust though!

Nevyn

Seanies32 wrote: »

Yep, the butterfly feeling and the anticipation for me. It really is lust though!

I'd say that depends on the type of attraction.

K-9

Thaedydal wrote: »

I'd say that depends on the type of attraction.

Indeed, but that's my initial type.

After time, it's slightly more complicated! In a long term relationship, their weaknesses can be just as attractive.

spinandscribble

Seanies32 wrote: »

After time, it's slightly more complicated! In a long term relationship, their weaknesses can be just as attractive.

thats very true. +1

fits

Wibbs wrote: »

All good and welcome but the last bit?......

Caused by the 'does he or doesnt he' sort of speculation. yeah the moodiness is definitely not welcome. grrr.

Censorsh!t

fits wrote: »

Caused by the 'does he or doesnt he' sort of speculation. yeah the moodiness is definitely not welcome. grrr.

I know what you mean. When you go out someone, you get maad mood changes, it's awful!