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Do you think ,Is she interested in that way?

  • 26-01-2009 8:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This girl I know was seeing a guy for 3 years before going through a not so nice break up recently.


    She drops a couple of meaningless comments on my bebo (which she never really did b4) and then mentions to me on msn a week ago about meeting up having not seen me in all these years - (we were together for few months when we were 21 but she dumped me for being jealous and immature)

    Now Im a different person altogether - Im not sure but she might have gathered this much through bebo

    Anyway before I confuse you any further my question is this:

    Does she want to meet out of curiousity whether I am potentially the right guy for her?

    Or

    Is it possible she just wants to meet as friends?

    The reason I ask is because I dont want to be hurt by this girl again and would prefer to forget about her than be friends......I would like to take it slow with the right person but not have my time wasted

    I hope this doesnt seem arrogant (Im not great looking!) but I reckon I can win almost any girl over as long as they are interested in me to begin with but who thinks theres a chance the girl could wasting my time?? Thank you


Comments

  • #2
    in2dblue
    Closed Accounts Posts: 65 ✭✭in2dblue


    She may see you as someone who desired her alot before so will make her feel wanted again so she can try move on from her messy break up but it is hard to say..

    You should meet up with her once atleast to give her a chance and then you will know for sure what she is looking for and put your mind to rest.


  • #3
    TheZohanS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    You should do what your gut is telling you, just be friends with her.

    She's just broken up with her fella so she might just be looking for a rebound-guy.

    The best way not to get hurt by this girl again is to not put yourself in a position to be hurt to start with.


  • #4
    Max Power1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,272 ✭✭✭✭Max Power1


    OP, shes probably looking for some no strings , and sees you as a sure thing (as an ex). Best stay away, unless being a f*** buddy for this girl is ok with you?!


  • #5
    Fanny Cradock
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,245 ✭✭✭✭Fanny Cradock


    If Kevin Keegan has taught us anything it's that you don't go back.


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