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Is it cause I'm fat?

  • 24-01-2009 3:02pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm not sure what to think! Been with my boyfriend for a year now. He is 22, I am 27. He isn't really into sex for the last few months. Maybe since about Octiber. Its like once a week or sometimes less. He is 22 - is this normal? I've asked him about it and he just said " is it really important for you?".

    I am overweight, he isn't. I was when I met him but due to a few reasons - I have put on a bit more since we met. I'm not obese or anything. I'm well proprtioned and I keep myself well. I aked him was it because of how I looked and he said no.

    I'm just wondering should I be concerned or is it fine. To be honest - I have a feeling there is something wrong - his sex drive has dropped. It may not necessarily have anything to do with me but it must be something. He isn't seeing anyone else either - I know that for sure.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    is he stressed at work or college?there could be many reasons for it; guys are just as susceptible to dips and peaks in their libido as women.may have nothing to do with you at all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    When you say you've put on weight, how much are we talking here?


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