exWife is such a dirtbag

LegacyUser

Hi all,just so angry,been wasting years with a woman who I found out is cheap. We were together a long time, after we married we had a kid and things were bad.She wanted me to stop drinking and stay home.I have a problem with my temper I can admit that,but I wasn't that bad but she still went ahead and pressed charges even though I always apologised when I sobered up. We lived abroad and the cops started dropping in cos she gave me a bad name calling them late at night. She even had a Irish male friend come round and check up after I can back from the bar.
Well after awhile she wanted us to sell up and divorce but I wouldn't let her sell for 2years,she kept saying we're separated now so it's better for the child to divorce. She left and came home to Ireland and she went to counselling. I came back too and she said we could try again for the child's sake. Then I went to counselling cos my boss fired me and told me if I went to AA he would give me a reference.
I have been sober for 10years now,we even had another kid too. But a year ago I found out that her male friend from all those years ago is back home and was looking for her,went to her parents to find her address. Turns out that just before she came home to Ireland they had sex and she got pregnant but had a miscarriage. She says they loved each other but he was sent away and was overseas with his job when he found out about the pregnancy and by that time she was back with me cos I went to AA.

Well he wanted to know if she was ok and she had the nerve to tell me that she wanted that baby. She said she told him she was with me but I don't want her anymore she's used goods. I have met someone who is good to me and have moved out. I don't see why she slept with him when we separated all thos years ago.He had some nerve after warning me not to hit her.Well he's welcome to her she a douchebag and my girlfriend and I are trying to make a go of it.

Sorry for the length of it, just putting it down. Any thoughts are welcome.

Wibbs

OK emotive subject here and I can see it possibly going south fast so I'm preempting here. I don't want any namecalling or kneejerk judgement please. Just stick to the facts and helpful advice please or this gets locked and bans may follow. Thanks.

wilson10

Have you started beating your new woman yet or will you wait a while till maybe she gets pregnant

thenightrider

You say your ex is a dirtbag may i ask you what you call yourself hitting women ?

Mr. Frost

He never actually said he hit her. Being abusive doesn't have to be physical.

Wibbs

You know, on second thoughts. I should have seen this coming given the subject matter. Mea culpa. Closed