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Some advice about a girl!

  • 26-12-2008 6:41pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So here's my dilema, Was at a party a few weeks ago first time in my life i was open and not shy and I was actually confident talking to girls.

    I made out with this girl, shes stunning and all the signs where there that she really liked me aswell, anyway things ended badly as there was a big fight with my friend and his g/f (friend of mine aswell), he cheated on her at a club and then I told her what had happened, so basically all **** blew up. The girl left without giving me her number because I was involved with this fight and I was jus p*ssed off for the night. I was then told by her best friend that the reason why she left without giving me her number etc was because she beleaved that I was a player like my friend. I got her number texted her a few times everything was cold with her replys I would have given up but because I liked her alot i decided not too, now here comes the biggest blow, I was out with her best friend x-mas eve she was doing some dress shopping and we go out sometimes catch up things like that, and i tell her that i do still like her best friend, she then tells me that this girl initially saw me as b/f material but because of everything thought i was just playing her and was just annoying her but that she does fancy me. The thing that really annoyed this girl was that they asked me If i liked a girl I said Yes but would never do anything about it because, she is going out with my friend and that I'd never try anything with her.

    I dunno what I do in this situation I like this girl alot and as far as i can tell she did/does fancy me but because of everything that has happened i screwed it up.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭madmik


    if shes being cold and wont listen just move on

    further chasing will just make u look more desperate +

    will also make her think shes better than you

    the pubs are opening tonight,u know what to do.......


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 65 ✭✭Me to you


    First impressions are everything, and by the sounds of it she'd never truly trust you. Move on i think, dont act desperate y chasing her further cause if ye did get together she would piss all over you.

    Plenty more fish in the sea, have fun finding the right one :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,618 ✭✭✭baldbear


    if you didn't tell on your mate then there would of been no fight and you could of gotten lucky. Rookie mistake.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Sorry but I think this one is a non-runner. You've made a bad impression on her and it's very difficult to come back from that.


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