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Can't Get Him Out Of My Head

  • 23-12-2008 12:51am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have this friend,and all I want from him is friendship,however I seen him in town last week and noticed how incredibly attractive he is....Now I can't stop thinking about him and dreaming about him. It's very annoying not to mention distracting.
    I'm in a very happy realtionship and so is he,I don't understand why this is happening.I don't want to have these feelings or pursue them in any way.We are friends that is all I want.

    Will these feelings pass


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭HouseHippo


    Hey OP.
    It's just a case of simple infatuation. Just give yourself a break from contacting him for a while. Concentrate on your own realtionship and soon you weill forget all about him. Believe me I know!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    the more you let yourself think about him, the less likely they are to pass.
    I've the exact same problem.....it's very tough.Similar relationship situations. Lots of sparks fly when we're together, get on great. Only want friendship though.Some days it's hard to get him out of my head and it's very annoying.It's getting better, but it's been going on for a while now...
    I look at it this way...I'm not going to act on it, and you'll always meet people who will make you think "what if?". All you can do is try your best not to think about them too much, and get on with your own relationship.


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