Relationships

LegacyUser

I have never been in a relationship however I am not hopeless with girls quite the opposite I pull extremely attractive women regularly but I just can never seem to actually develop a relationship with them. I suppose my main problem is I am terrified when sober of spending time one on one with the girl because I feel I would have very little to talk about I am quite quiet when sober. I just feel I have so much love and affection to give a lot of girls see me as a player only interested in one thing but its just not the case whenever I have a one night stand I love the next morning when your in each others arms and would love nothing more to spend the whole day together but of course with one night stands its never going to happen.

Dragan

Stop drinking, start talking to people sober.

Thats about it. You have no issues approaching women, so maybe as one out for drinks instead of home for coffee mate.

RedXIV

If you're that confident in talking to girls then surely it can't be that hard to meet someone in a club and instead of thinking "one night stand", ask her if she'd like to meet up again. Even if you wait till the end of the night, after all the fun tongue wrestling, just mention it to her. You might suprise yourself.

LolaLuv

Yep, just have to go for it. It probably won't be easy at first, but practice makes perfect. Thing is, you have to go out on that limb and actually go on dates to get the practice! And usually things flow better than you might be thinking. Even if you're shy, if you like the girl you'll find things to talk about.

cantdecide

You simply have old habits to break (ya big softy)