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Advice please!

  • 14-12-2008 9:26pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was just wondering if anyone could offer any advice. Last week when out drinking I got with this guy I sort of know (friend of a friend type thing) and ended up staying at his house.
    These things usually leave me feeling annoyed at myself and full regret, but this time I had a really good time and think that I really like him, I can't stop thinking about him!

    I just don't know what to do. Should I pursue it or just leave it? I'm just really scared that he regrets it and I dunno what to do!

    It's really rare that I'd actually like someone, usually I'd lose interest very quick (like 2 days!) or only half care about them, so this is a pretty big deal.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Get in touch with him and ask hi out for coffee/drink and see how things go.
    Better to know then not know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 789 ✭✭✭jen_23


    Yip +1. Just ask him to meet up and go from there. Has there been any contact at all since?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    +1, definitely see if he wants to meet up again.
    If he's as much of an idiot as me, he's probably scared that you're regretting it...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 269 ✭✭Terpsichore


    People you like don't come around that often: give him a go!
    You might regret it later if he says no... but if you never ask...! Good luck!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 41,926 ✭✭✭✭_blank_


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Get in touch with him and ask hi out for coffee/drink and see how things go.
    Better to know then not know.

    This is the best advice you'll get in this thread.

    Ring him.

    No texting, no playing the waiting game.

    Nothing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    Its simple ring him.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Embarrassment lasts a short time but regrets last a lifetime.

    Go for it!


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