To dress up or down....

LegacyUser

Ok, minor issue, but in a nutshell, I'm with my lovely boyfriend for over a year, we have a great time together both in and out of bed.. Little problem, while I always try to look nice for him, he wants me to dress up for him, now not in a french maid or kinky school teacher kind of way which wouldn't overly bother me, but basque, stockings, suspenders etc... Now I'm game, all but rushed out to get the goods, had a dress rehearsal and AGHhhhhh I look like a fcuking turkey all trussed up and no where to go... Right I've put on a few pound nothing too excessive, but it makes all the difference, damn contentment!! I know the solution is to lose the few pound but until then my eager boyfriend doesn't get his early Christmas gift! Okay, I know he's seen me naked, and I'd walk around in front of him but I just look bloody ridicoulous in the get up! I've had joyous times in the past with boyfriends dressing up, dressing down, but admittedly have never done the whole suspendery thing before! Oh what to do, should I just go for it or tell him I'm not comfortable and to wait until the new years resolutions kick in!!! Talk to me people ...

shellyboo

I absolutely, totally and completely guarantee you that if this is something that your boyfriend is into, that he will not think you look ridiculous. He'll be too busy picking his jaw up off the floor to think anything... in fact, the sudden loss of blood from the brain as it flows other places will prevent him thinking at all.

Do it, do it, do it. I promise you that as soon as you see how excited he is, you won't feel uncomfortable in the least.

LegacyUser

Also do it by candlelight, will be very flattering and put your curves in a super sexy light! Go on, you will have fun too when you see his reaction. He will NOT be sitting there judging you

Lollipops23

but i'm sure your baps are all thrusted upwards?yes?he's defo not going to notice a lil pudginess as long as it's south of the boobs.trust me.

Queencake

Like you I've gained a "bit-een" since I got with my fella. I say feck it. Your bf will go into stimulation overload and won't care about the body issues you think are a bother. He won't notice. When he's half dressed with you, do you look at his flaws?! No! If you're like me and everyone else you're just thinking "Mmmm..."

Come on male boarders! Are we right?!

Auldloon

Queencake wrote: »

Come on male boarders! Are we right?!

YES!!!!
I cant stress this enough op, go for it he will love it. Guaranteed.

shellyboo

Unregistered11 wrote: »

Also do it by candlelight, will be very flattering and put your curves in a super sexy light! Go on, you will have fun too when you see his reaction. He will NOT be sitting there judging you

+ 1000.

Everyone looks better by candlelight. Fact.

Queencake

Damn right. My fella loves it when I dress up for him. I reckon the vast majority of lads get a thrill from it and you know for a fact that this kinda thing gets your bf going as he's requested it!

PS: To make it even more "interesting" I suggest waxing/shaving your hair "down there" into a heart shape... Some guys are really into it! Mad but true... If you choose to shave use aloe vera gel as a shaving lotion, because it's clear you can see what you're doing more clearly and get the best shape!

shellyboo

Queencake wrote: »

PS: I suggest shaving your hair "down there" into a heart shape... Some guys are really into it! Mad but true...

I suggest getting rid of it altogether for an extra-special surprise :pac::D:p

Queencake

shellyboo wrote: »

I suggest getting rid of it altogether for an extra-special surprise :pac::D:p

Lol, true. I didn't even think to suggest that as it's old news to me at this stage. The heart was a surprise hit! If you've never been fully shaved down there for this bf then do the full thang! Just make sure you exfoliate gently as it grows back to prevent looking too red and sore!

shellyboo

Queencake wrote: »

Lol, true. I didn't even think to suggest that as it's old news to me at this stage. The heart was a surprise hit! If you've never been fully shaved down there for this bf then do the full thang! Just make sure you exfoliate gently as it grows back to prevent looking too red and sore!

Me too. Teh menz love it. Even the ones who pretend not to care :pac:

LegacyUser

Ah thanks to you all!! The heart shape made me laugh, what a great idea though! Yeh, think candle light is good, defo for the first time, to get into the swing of things.. and you're right he's put on a few himself and I don't notice it at all when we're "in the mood" even if I did it wouldn't bother me! Must dash, have my heard shaped stencil and razor at the ready!! lol x

LegacyUser

Sorry to hijack your thread, OP, but this is something I really want to do for my boyfriend too. I know he'd love it, and while I'd probably feel a bit stupid, it'd be worth it for his reaction. My problem is logistics. Do I have the gear on under my clothes, or do I pop off to the bathroom and get changed? If I have to go get changed, I'll have to bring the stuff with me and it might be a give-away. I want him to be really surprised by it all. What's the best way to go about it?

Danny2580

Go for it if you feel comfortable with it. You'll likely enjoy it and I've no doubt he will too!!!

shellyboo

Me too! wrote: »

Sorry to hijack your thread, OP, but this is something I really want to do for my boyfriend too. I know he'd love it, and while I'd probably feel a bit stupid, it'd be worth it for his reaction. My problem is logistics. Do I have the gear on under my clothes, or do I pop off to the bathroom and get changed? If I have to go get changed, I'll have to bring the stuff with me and it might be a give-away. I want him to be really surprised by it all. What's the best way to go about it?

It depends what you want to wear... a basque, stockings and suspenders is perfectly fine (if a tad uncomfortable) to wear under a dress... however, if you're thinking more along the lines of a babydoll or something more floaty, then you're going to have to do the old 'let me slip into something more comfortable' trick.

LegacyUser

No problem Me Too, the more the merrier! I was thinking of this to, but to be honest I reckon the best way is to "greet him" maybe when he's out somewhere you could be in his place and get yourself ready for his return which I think is my best option, or invite him to yours and again "greet him" at the door, depending on your situation, nosey neighbours, flatmates, parents.. Christ perish the thoughts.. etc...

Queencake

shellyboo wrote: »

It depends what you want to wear... a basque, stockings and suspenders is perfectly fine (if a tad uncomfortable) to wear under a dress... however, if you're thinking more along the lines of a babydoll or something more floaty, then you're going to have to do the old 'let me slip into something more comfortable' trick.

Indeed. Shellyboo is right. Wear underneath clothes if it's comfy. Plus you'll feel extra sexy knowing what you're wearing underneath Or give him a kiss and a sexy look and tell him you'll be right back...No rush getting ready imo...Lol, helps build anticipation!

Queencake

Trussed up wrote: »

Ah thanks to you all!! The heart shape made me laugh, what a great idea though! Yeh, think candle light is good, defo for the first time, to get into the swing of things.. and you're right he's put on a few himself and I don't notice it at all when we're "in the mood" even if I did it wouldn't bother me! Must dash, have my heard shaped stencil and razor at the ready!! lol x

I hope you're serious!!! If you are, extra tip - use a tweezer to neaten up edges.

Queencake

Trussed up wrote: »

No problem Me Too, the more the merrier! I was thinking of this to, but to be honest I reckon the best way is to "greet him" maybe when he's out somewhere you could be in his place and get yourself ready for his return which I think is my best option, or invite him to yours and again "greet him" at the door, depending on your situation, nosey neighbours, flatmates, parents.. Christ perish the thoughts.. etc...

Great idea hun. Opening the door wearing a nice sexy satin/silk robe over your gear is good in my experience as then you get to do the whole sexy slipping off of the robe!

LegacyUser

Trussed up wrote: »

No problem Me Too, the more the merrier! I was thinking of this to, but to be honest I reckon the best way is to "greet him" maybe when he's out somewhere you could be in his place and get yourself ready for his return which I think is my best option, or invite him to yours and again "greet him" at the door, depending on your situation, nosey neighbours, flatmates, parents.. Christ perish the thoughts.. etc...

Good thinking, I know there'll be an opportunity to greet him at his place. I might also wear it under clothes, but I may have to travel and don't want any unslightly marks from boning cutting into me! I'm excited now!

Curvy Vixen

To the (2!) OPs...I wear stuff like this daily and love it. There's something very naughty about knowing what you have underneath.

I have been all shapes and sizes and have NEVER had a bad reaction to it. And you have the added bonuses of knowing that your men love, desire and fancy the pants off you already. Put on a little confidence with that underwear and even if you don't feel it then act like a siren. I can't for one second imagine it will go pear shaped :D

Most of all, have fun with it...he will!