Going out with a Russian girl

Mrbrianmolko

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

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Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Should this be in personal issues?

yes

Kintarō Hattori

jackncoke wrote: »

yes

Ah it's not an issue as such, the OP is asking for some advice in regards to the ladies. Unfortunately for him his choice of forum might not provide the answers he was hoping for.

AlmightyCushion

In soviet Russia girlfriend fúcks you.

On a more serious note, if you want nonsense and stupid answers then it should be in here. If you want serious, thought out answers from people with the mental age of a foetus then it should be in personal issues.

Let me know if you want it moved.

Mrbrianmolko

Can you move it over to personal issues please!

AlmightyCushion

Moved from After Hours.

Professey Chin

Quit your braggin. Just cause as stated above soviet girl fcuks you doesnt mean you gotta spout about it. Only russian girl I have is when I call my right hand sofia

Overheal

Damn! and I didnt even get any good commie jokes in.

OP whatever you do, dont let that stop you from enjoying yourselves with the time you do have.

I dont see why it would be mad to get involved with her on a long term/distance basis; no more abstract than any other multinational relationship I would think. I only ask you PM me the details every now and then so I can keep tabs for the CIA.

LegacyUser

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

Hi There, first of all let me say it seems you have found a great partner whatever her nationality going on your description. The main question is really with you, as in do you want to take it further. As someone with a wife from the Former soviet union I have experienced all the highs and lows a relationship like this can offer.

I shoudl warn you that a relationship like this will not be cheap as there is a lot of expense in travelling. What part of Russia is she from? There will be times that you will be months away from each other, and this can be very difficult. There will be times when beauracracy will be very demanding (Visas etc).

However if you real want to get serious with this girl and go through these hardships the pay off is great. I advise that you try to learn as much about her home country as possible, learn basic Russian, and put away any spare money for a visit to her. Also with an eye on the future it may be a case that for her to visit again, as a private visitor to Ireland you should try and establish proof of your relationship, photos, letters of correspondence etc Just in case the visa office thinks you're a human trafficker.

Another thing you can do to meet up after is to find countries where there is no visas needed for travel for Russians or Irish e.g. Cyprus, Turkey, etc

Best of luck with it

wasper

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

Nobody can give you a definit yes or no. You have to decide.
it's a new relationship, so where the marriage idea is coming from? Did you discuss with the GF? Or is it just cheap comment made by your friends.
Just go with the flow, enjoy the moment & see what happens.

towel401

I'm a bitter ould sod but there is always the distinct possibility that after a while she will want to marry you, get her green card and run for it.

Hitchhiker's Guide to...

lol at the responses saying she is looking for a visa.

Russian is one of the wealthier countries in the world now, albeit with a lot of poverty in certain areas. If she can afford to come here for study then she is probably from a wealthy family and the idea that she might be after a visa is quite ridiculous.

Why not just take her as she is rather than using a 1980's stereotype to judge her (or allowing your friends to judge her)?

craiginireland

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

Bragger

hungryhippo

Other people with smart comments are just jealous. Oh Nikita is it it cold...........

Wibbs

craiginireland this is PI not AH so stay on topic and helpful. Cheers. This goes for anyone else making with the AH "humour"

PixelTrawler

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

Just reading this and Im thinking why does it have to end? So she moves home - it doesnt have to end

My GF is german (ok not nearly as far but still) and we've gone through periods of distance and living together and were still going strong after 5 years

Another friend is going out with someone from south america - mostly distance but they save and holiday together - it can work

bush Baby

stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...

So what's the problem? Work your arse off to keep her, women like that don't grow on trees. FACT.

Grawns

bush Baby wrote: »

So what's the problem? Work your arse off to keep her, women like that don't grow on trees. FACT.

Stay employed - the attractiveness of Russian girls is pretty well-known. Also their avarice.

grizzly

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Well im with my first foreign girl now, a russian girl studying over here for the next few months. Big difference between her and Irish women!

Shes so total devoted to me (even a little obsessed) which i love as im mad about her.

Shes stunning, such a laugh, the best personality ever, very intelligent, so thoughtful and friendly...but i know its going to end in tears as she'll have to move home soon.
But i still am a bit unsure, all the lads do be asking did I buy her/mail order (Hilarious :rolleyes:) and before anyones even met her they say shes just after a passport etc

Has anyone ever gone out with a russian girl before and whats they're experiences of them? Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March? Should this be in personal issues?

You will never have any real certainties in a new relationship – whoever is involved (Irish or Russian girls). You just have to enjoy the moment and take it to it's best conclusion.

bush Baby

Grawns wrote: »

Stay employed - the attractiveness of Russian girls is pretty well-known. Also their avarice.

Hmmm, that goes for most girls - any girls - from anywhere. :rolleyes:

lolli

I went out with a foreign person for a few years was great up until the end.

My advice to you is.... Dont get a loan out in your name for them... They can leave the country very easily. :mad::mad:

JimmyCrackCorn!

lolli wrote: »

I went out with a foreign person for a few years was great up until the end.

My advice to you is.... Dont get a loan out in your name for them... They can leave the country very easily. :mad::mad:

Doest that go for irish girls two.


I have had happy experience after a year and a half(Chinese). If you like her go for it. You have nothing to loose.

Each woman is different and race means little more than culture shock which isn't a bad thing. We do have the similar visa problem and my better half is defiantly not after a passport as she has a career and im moving there. (if all goes to plan pretty soon)

Mrbrianmolko

Cool thanks for the advice people.

AlmightyCushion

Mrbrianmolko wrote: »

Am i mad to get involved if she has to go home in March?

Just noticed this part of your post now. No, you're not mad to get involced with her especially if you are as crazy about her as you say you are. I'd also be willing to bet that if you didn't start going out with her, that come March when she is going home you'd be kicking yourself for not doing so and you'd be right. Those months with her of bliss and happiness, while they will exsacerbate the dissapointment and sadness you'll feel when she's gone it will make it more than worthwhile.

TripleAce

Grawns wrote: »

Stay employed - the attractiveness of Russian girls is pretty well-known. Also their avarice.

Lol to this bull****. (Not the attractiveness part).

Surely then based on this thread Irish women are all goldiggers :rolleyes:


OP, just go for it and see if you can find a job in Russia or if she can settle here longer - friends who make jokes of you are just jealous as they probably had to settle for some local ugly fatty minger whose highest ambition in life is to get drunk and sleep around on Saturday night and when they turn 30 end up posting in PI wondering why there are no nice guys out there. :rolleyes:

cowzerp

Russian girls are beautiful and are really friendly, sometimes they dont look it, but there men are quite grumpy to them, they think we're the same till we speak to them as equals and they love it-im happily in a long term relationship but would not hestate to pursue a russian girl if i was single-Enjoy-:)

ebmma

Hee hee.

I'm a Russian girl. However, I lived here since 15, so I don't really have the usual russian ideals.

Expect that she'll want you to be well off, with apartment/house and marry her at some stage soon if relationship develops.
Going out for 10 years is a no-no.

Grawns

ebmma wrote: »

Hee hee.

I'm a Russian girl. However, I lived here since 15, so I don't really have the usual russian ideals.

Expect that she'll want you to be well off, with apartment/house and marry her at some stage soon if relationship develops.
Going out for 10 years is a no-no.

So stay employed is good advice then!

Overature

hmmmm, she'll have to go back eventually, so dont go "russian" around with her

MIN2511

It's not about Nationality, see how things pan out over the next few months....

Don't rush into anything and don't be pressurized into anything

ebmma

Grawns wrote: »

So stay employed is good advice then!

yeah :-)

My family is still pissed off because I ran away with a poor Irish student