Why does she do this?

Wasy

I was meeting a girl last year who i was mad about but she told me she'd lost interest and we finished, i was gutted but i'm well over it at this stage. We both live in the country so we'd be out in the same places but i find her attitute towards me strange. One week she'd be all about me, the next week she wouldnt even look at me, Why would she do this would anyone think, i must still have a soft spot for her if it bothers me.

MIN2511

Unfortunately she knows you still care and would play with your emotions. The thing is you need to stop thinking about her.

Wibbs

Pretty much what Min wrote. The "power" in the relationship was with her and still is. That's naturally hard for some to give up. It makes them feel better about themselves. Just be pleasant with her and don't make any moves at all.

Colonel_McCoy

Op, I think you just have to accept nothing is going to happen. Just be civil

Wasy

I tend to agree, i was out Saturday night and her best friend came up to me when i was talking to another girl telling the girl that i a complete clown in way worse language than that which i couldnt believe since it was her friend who dumped me.

BaZmO*

The best way to headfvck someone that's trying to headfvck you is to show that you don't care. Easier said than done mind.

Partizan

Wasy wrote: »

I was meeting a girl last year who i was mad about but she told me she'd lost interest and we finished, i was gutted but i'm well over it at this stage. We both live in the country so we'd be out in the same places but i find her attitute towards me strange. One week she'd be all about me, the next week she wouldnt even look at me, Why would she do this would anyone think, i must still have a soft spot for her if it bothers me.

OP, a bit of advice. Stay the hell away from this woman. Avoid her like the plague. You are wasting your time if you are still holding a candle to this one.

She's an immature head wrecking control freak with her silly mind games. It can be so frustrating. Learn from it, take it on the chin and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.

The_Conductor

Have to agree with the above. Be civil and pleasant- but absolutely nothing more. She is behaving the she is, because she can see the effect it is having on you. If it doesn't appear to be having an effect on you- she'll get bored and move on elsewhere.

In the interim- if you do want to go out and socialise with other girls- seriously suggest you go elsewhere.........

MIN2511

Wasy wrote: »

I tend to agree, i was out Saturday night and her best friend came up to me when i was talking to another girl telling the girl that i a complete clown in way worse language than that which i couldnt believe since it was her friend who dumped me.

Why is her freind in your business? If this happens again you should approach her and tell her she needs to cop on.
I hope the girl you were talking to didn't take her seriously?

Wasy

She was laughing, fairly childish behaviour i have to say.