what to do with spirit in house

kazzpop

Hi there

Just looking for some advice. really-- i think our house is haunted. i know that seems to be crack . but i have always got the feeling that something is in the house. its more so at night then anything else. especially in one room in particular - its like something is there standing in a corner watching. i dont sense it is evil spirit but i am weary of what it is . My mother in law died 2 year ago and i am sure it is her. She had a spiritual gift but she died before i could talk to her to find out more about what she had. what i understand of it She couldnt help herself with gift she had but she could help others - does makes sense, her family also had gift her brother and sister have it but others dont a niece has it and her two sons alway have a similar gift but dont use it .....
my question is if it is her, why is she with us ? and what does she want? biggest question what can i do to help her ?
Please no messer reply

Not The Real Scarecrow

There coud be several logical explainations to this.The feelings you describe when in the room are commonly associated with high electro magnetic fields which can be caused by the wiring or a particular appliance in that room.If I were you I'd check out that theory first before taking any other steps.
If it turns out that this is not the case then its time to start going down other routes, however by advice to you would be not to jump to any conclusions to what or who it is with out after making any contact.If it is a spirit there is nothing saying that it is your mother in law and could possibly be a spirit not associated with you or even the house, it may also not even be a spirit.However as I stated I think it is best not to jump to any conclusions as of yet, it may be something that is easily explained.If you jump to conclusions you may cause your self unnecessary stress which I have seen in the past have a very negative effect on ones life and family.
Stay calm and try keep a good head about you, in cases like this its very important to look after your emotional health or things can go down hill with out you even realising it.
I hope I have been of some help to you, if there is aything further that I can help you with please pm me and I'll try and help as best I can.

Oryx

The main thing, as mentioned, is to remain level headed. Its funny how once youve decided something like this - I have a spirit in my house - your imagination will feed and build the idea. So try and stay objective about it.

Im going to go straight past any notion of whats making you feel like this, or proving the existence of something. Ill leave that to the experts.:) Im just going to refer to your query:

why is she with us ? and what does she want? biggest question what can i do to help her ?

Im just going to give my opinion on what I would believe to be the case if your feelings were accurate. I dont think your m-i-l would be stuck, lost, or unable or unwilling to move on. If she is with you, its because she wants to be. Maybe so you know she is still there, that she still exists. Maybe to help in a situation she is observing. She is in spirit, and dont feel you need to 'help' her, really. All you need to do is acknowledge and accept her presence. Say hello.:) Take comfort from it, and then just live your life as normal, with the knowledge that your mil is probably keeping an eye on you as a nice thing in the back of your mind.

If you are noticing events that you feel are paranormal, then use the acknowledgement thing again. It sounds daft, but just mentally say, "Ok, I know you are there, thanks. Could you stop now? Cheers." Even on the simplest level that has an effect, because it does actually put you at ease with the situation by doing it.

Zillah

Out of curiosity, what kind of gift do your relations have?

kazzpop

thanks for the advice,
meatwad i checked to see if it was something to with high electrics output from TV but i am certain its not it.

its always in the same corner high near the ceiling. I know it's there dont ask how but i can sense it.

Oryx; i have done what you were saying I have acknowleged their presence, i think i know why they are here. My Uncle is in a very bad way in hospital and its deeply affecting me, i think they are here to comfort me.

Zillah; not to sure about the gift, they can read people, when they first meet and usually can predict things or know things about people that only the person would know themselves but they can help someone who has recently loss a loved one by trying to make contact - but its not with cards or crystal balls or anything = its very had to describe, they cant help themselves and i'm sure they cant help anyone close to them either.
My uncle in law maintains that his sister is still with us (my Mother in law) and she is with me ! Cant even get my head around it either . sometimes i get so spooked out - it's scary !. there is one incident my husband told me about. just after his mom died he was to see a pyschic and in the middle of it he told the pyschic there was someone in the room belonged to them (pyschic) my husband went on to tell them that the person died in WW1 and when the pyschic asked how they died he gave an accurate description i.e. exactly where in the body they were shot.
I would love to able to speak to my mother in law again because i miss her terrible - she had a fanastic sense of humour even though sometimes she did go on a bit... but she was very down to earth and easy to chat too...