Should I go for it?

LegacyUser

Ok so here's my dilemma..
I was at a friends birthday dinner a few months ago and ended up sitting across from one of her friends who I didnt know. We chatted away casually during the dinner and got on pretty well. A few days later, I found out from my friend that he was really into me. I didn't do anything about it at the time because I wasn't sure of my feelings towards him. At the weekend, I was at another friends birthday and he was there again! Bear in mind this was my first encounter with him since I first met him. He remembered me and he's still into me. I now feel the same towards him. Something might have happened between us had it not been for another girl. She ended up paying him quite a lot of attention for most of the night (I dont think she is actually really into him, it was just general drunken behaviour on her part). Had it not been for her I definitely would have made a move. I didnt get his number but I added him on bebo after the party and we've chatted casually. Should I go for it with him? The only think holding me back is the fact that he's in college, while Im doing the leaving. He obviously has the opportunity to go out and meet other girls every night of the week. He doesnt really seem the relationship type either, but then again I dont know him that well. What should I do?
Sorry for being so longwinded!

crazzzzy

you could ask your friend to suss it out for you. Has he asked for your number? If he is really into you why hasn't he done something bout it? Is he shy?

You are young & have nothing to lose so next time you chatting to him on bebo, why not send him private message asking if he wants to meet up or something

MagicMarker

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He doesnt really seem the relationship type either, but then again I dont know him that well.

I think before you make any decisions you need to get some clarity on this.

~nop~

Yeah definately go for it! Sure you already know he likes you so you don't even need to be nervous about it! Or even if you don't want to ask him out yourself get one of your friends who's friends with you to invite him on a night out or something.
Good luck!

Snowie

whats the hang up he remembered you so your not invisable.
Another girl got in your way make a small move... Like im suprised you havent asked me for my number......

be cheeky....

MIN2511

Get in there!

No time for shoulda, coulda and woulda....

Dave!

Go for it