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awkward situation

  • 05-11-2008 8:32pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Howdy,
    Long and complicated situation!! Went out with a lovely lad for almost two years, we went through a rough patch during that summer and we broke up, he was with someone less then two weeks later and left me broken hearted, he asked me back....i was way too hurt at the time to even consider it.

    So a fair bit of time has passed and well whenever we're both out we end up together, he says all i want to hear i get excited and then he just says that he wants to move on, ok grand i should learn from this, but am stupid and finding it difficult to get over my first love.

    So after spending all this time apart i realise that i was happier with him, he has asked me back loads of times but the last two weeks he's gone cold just as i'm warming to the idea.

    So my friends said go for it, and i told him how i felt, he said i'd missed my chance and ruined it by moving on....but he moved on first and i don't think those other people are important if we care about eachother,

    i just dunno should i try to keep him or just move on, we text nearly everyday, and i'm civil but he picks fight, i just dunno, my heads a mess,

    help.


Comments

  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    With your head in a mess its not a good start to a relationship. Cut all contact for a month, take some space and make a reasoned decision... If he respects you he will leave you alone for a month to decide...

    You are too close to the situation and cant see the woods for the trees....


  • #3
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Both of you sound like you don't know what you want. Is it a case of the grass being greener on the other side? Maybe you should both take a break from each other for a week or two, then sit down (not text) and have a proper conversation about this. If you do get back together, go into it with a clean slate. None of this 'you moved on first' rubbish.


  • #4
    drunkymonkey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 557 ✭✭✭drunkymonkey


    Unregistered wrote: »
    he has asked me back loads of times but the last two weeks he's gone cold just as i'm warming to the idea.

    So my friends said go for it, and i told him how i felt, he said i'd missed my chance and ruined it by moving on....
    .

    maybe he just likes the idea of you wanting him, and as soon as he felt like you wanted him again he got his fun and stopped trying! like the song 'i want you to want me' ..... give him some space acting like your not interested and see if he'l come back interested! i had someone like this do this to me soon realised their game!....... just a thought but you obviously know him better!


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