Small Guy

suppo

Only new to the board and I thought I would get peoples opinions on this.

The saying goes tall, dark and handsome.

At 5'4 or 5'5 I ain't tall, I'm Irish so I ain't dark and handsome, hhmm well I'm not Tom Cruise but I certainly ain't the Elephant Man.

My main issue is the height though.

I would say I am confident enough in most situations and have been told that I have a good personality and enjoy a good laugh. But I find so often that if I am getting along well with a girl the outcome in the majority of situations turns into her saying lets be friends. People will say you can't have enough friends etc. but it does get quiet tedious after a while. I also believe that if I was the few inches taller the outcome to not all but a lot more of these situations would be different.

So were are all the girls who like small guys? And how much of a factor does it play?

Think of the advantages, you's don't always have to wear heels, you can swap clothes if that way inclined , we eat less and smaller is cuter.

Another thing is that everyone now always whats things in smaller packages, smaller phones, smaller cameras, smaller computers, when will it be smaller guys.

Come on girls trade in the Ipod Classic and get a Nano, it has all the same features but in a neater package.

Koushki

I'll tell you why girls don't often go for smaller men. It's because of instinct, the man is meant to protect, therefor be taller, stronger and faster than the female.
however times have changed. And there's someone out there for everyone. good luck i guess. :pac:

Aidric

Do you have a big schlong? No worries then.

Overheal

Aidric wrote: »

Do you have a big schlong? No worries then.

Mini-Me was packed.

suppo

Aidric wrote: »

Do you have a big schlong? No worries then.

Small jockey big whip , the issue is trying to get girls to use it like she is riding the winner in a the Grand National :pac:

Wibbs

Folks lets all ease up on the willy jokes. I dig them ordinarily and indeed would be waaay more puerile than most but context is everything so only helpful posts for the OP from now on. OK?

Wibbs

OP, look none of us are dealing with a full deck of cards attraction wise. I myself struggle after the 9 of hearts....:D It really does boil down to who you are as a person and a man. The two most successful men I know with women(in every way) are damned near the same height as you. The least successful men I know? Both are well over six feet. That's the truth.

Maximus747

Hey Man, Im a tall guy about 6.6 and I can tell ya its often the same with me. Girls prefer to be friends rather more. Bloody annoying. Tall, dark and handsome; load of bull**** made up in 1950s. Just got to keep the faith and eventually u will find the right girl.

kowloon

Agree with Koushki on this one: People are shallow.
Don't let it get you down though, while the majority of women might like a tall, strong millionaire with a batman jaw, it's not everyones cup of tea.

loopyloulou

Dont be worrying, my boyfriend is the same height as me about 5ft 4 and hes the best thing that ever happened to me!! For a man to be a 'man' it has nothing to do with whether hes tall dark and handsome, its how he treats his girlfriend thats most important. Ive had the tall well built kind and believe me they dont compare to my little bundle of hotness :):)

Curlypinkie

Well, I don't think that is down to you being short, tall, fat or thin.
If you don't click with someone the above have nothing to do with it.

And I agree with the above statements that people nowadays are shallow. I hate that trait but what can you do....