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When is it appropriate to have sex?

  • 13-10-2008 12:42am
    #1
    Twinkletoes4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10 ✭


    Hi,
    I'm not long out of a long-term relationship and have met a few nice guys since. However, i do feel a little out of touch from the life all you singletons lead and would like your opinion on when it is deemed appropriate to have sex for the first time with a new guy?

    Do guys lose respect if it happens too soon?

    I am at Uni and for most people a poke is their number one priority so it's hard to find somebody nice!!

    Advice greatly appreciated, even (especially!!) from any men.

    Thanks in advance :)


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  • #2
    Smyth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 714 ✭✭✭Smyth


    Twinkletoes4 wrote: »
    Hi,
    I'm not long out of a long-term relationship and have met a few nice guys since. However, i do feel a little out of touch from the life all you singletons lead and would like your opinion on when it is deemed appropriate to have sex for the first time with a new guy?

    Do guys lose respect if it happens too soon?

    I am at Uni and for most people a poke is their number one priority so it's hard to find somebody nice!!

    Advice greatly appreciated, even (especially!!) from any men.

    Thanks in advance :)


    Oh, we're full of problems tonight aren't we twinkletoes?

    It depends on you tbh. Follow what you find comfortable. No one else can tell you when it's time. If there's enough passion, and you both want it, what's stopping you? Never feel like you "have to" to keep them interested. If you do that, then you're better off without.

    Hard figures though? There really aren't any I'm afraid. On a constant stream of texts, calls and dates. Maybe 3 weeks? You'll weed out some creeps with a timeframe like that.

    That being said, I remember coming out of a serious relationship and having 2 or 3 months of 1 night stands. So there's my 2c's.


  • #3
    Galvasean
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    For every person its different. Some people see nothing wrong with hoping in bed with someone they just met while some wouldn't consider it until after marriage.

    It's just up to you really, when you decide you feel ready for it and are with someone you deem worthy of it.


  • #4
    Dord
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,817 ✭✭✭✭Dord


    When you're ready, everyone is different.


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