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LegacyUser · 2008-10-11 21:15:46

I've just been rejected by a girl who I love and I thought she genuinely loved me. We met 5 years ago, and got together after 3 years for a short period, then got together again for a night a few weeks ago. We live a long distance from each other and because of this reason I ended our first relationship, despite the fact…

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I've just been rejected by a girl who I love and I thought she genuinely loved me. We met 5 years ago, and got together after 3 years for a short period, then got together again for a night a few weeks ago.

We live a long distance from each other and because of this reason I ended our first relationship, despite the fact that I was fairly sure I loved her. I always maintained that the distance factor would have to change before I would get back with her.

So during the last 2 years I felt so empty inside and my feelings for her grew and grew so I went and moved to the city where she lives.

We eventually met and spent the night together. Everything seemed fine, the sex seemed to be good, she was cuddling into me the whole night and I felt happy and fulfilled for the first time in 2 yrs.

The next day she informs me that nothing more is going to happen and that it is over. I tried to get a reason or explanation out of her without too much success but I think she’s just holding back on saying that she just doesn’t like enough anymore to spare my feelings.

She is the only girl I’ve ever been with, and the only girl I actually really wanted to be with. She liked me for who I am. I’m not exactly charming, amazingly good-looking, fun to be around, interesting or anything like that, but she liked me. Until now that is.

For the last 3 or so years she’s been the one constant on my mind, my sole motivation was to get back with her. I would have much confidence in myself but when this girl turns around and rejects me I just don’t know what to think.

I don’t really know why I’m posting all of this, I don’t know what you people can say to make it better, and I’m not a great believer in the “there’s plenty more fish in the sea” responses I’m likely to get. I suppose I just need to confide in someone, and seeing I’ve no-one in “real life” to do it to, I thought I’d do it here.

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