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Can someone tell me why?

  • 01-10-2008 1:16pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I jus split with my guy after a few yrs, and it was my doing. I seriously had enough of taking his crap and more or less being his mammy. I was very adament with my decision this was 2 months ago .. so why am I changing my mind? I really dont think I want him back and there are other guys sniffing around nicer, more attractive guys so whats the dealio? Through the whole relationship I never felt close to him and never really thought I actually loved him. So why am I gettin all these feelings? Im not used to this and I want to move on, but something is niggling at me so why ? Does every1 feel like this after a break up or am I just feeling sorry for myself or something? I dont know can any anser ?
    Sorry for any conffusion caused!


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  • #2
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    You just miss him OP. And when other boys are showing an interest you keep thinking of your ex because the devil you know is better than the devil you don't. You're reacting totally normally!


  • #3
    Millie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 565 ✭✭✭Millie


    As was said...better the devil you know.
    It's the comfort of knowing him & his familiarity that you miss I would think.


  • #4
    j0605
    Closed Accounts Posts: 66 ✭✭j0605


    These feelings you are having are normal, we always wonder if we did the right thing, its the "what ifs" , but by the sound of it you didnt make a mistake,
    At the end of the day there were reasons you ended things. If these reasons are still there then getting back together wouldn't be the best as you would probably want to end things again.


  • #5
    smares
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 304 ✭✭smares


    You probably only miss the comfort of being with him because ye knew each other so well. If you think you never loved him then don't waste anymore time on him,move on and find yourself someone you are interested in.It is totally normal to feel the way you do.


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