what can i do ???????

niknak28

Hi evryone new to this didnt know where to turn so giving this a go!!!

So heres my dilemma met a bloke over a yr ago iv lost contact with friends and family all due to giving him all my time. The thing is now i cant stand him been near me i know it sounds terrible:( but i just feel empty when he goes to hug me. He moved in with me and my son a few mths back and all was grand but now it jus seems like iv nothing with him i have tried to sit him down and talk to him bout the way i feel but he jus says things to me that make me feel like its my fault and that i need to work harder to make it work thing is i dont want it to work anymore i told him this and told him that i care for him but dont love him anymore what am i gonna do its like talking to a brick wall!!!!

RossFixxxed

Rather than just throw out the 'cut it and run' adivce I thought I'd give another angle. Would getting out more, seeing your friends, getting back in touch with your family regularly etc. help in any way? Maybe you need more space and time to do your own things?

Otherwise you will have to look at cutting and running tbh.

Good luck,
R

niknak28

RossFixxxed wrote: »

Rather than just throw out the 'cut it and run' adivce I thought I'd give another angle. Would getting out more, seeing your friends, getting back in touch with your family regularly etc. help in any way? Maybe you need more space and time to do your own things?

Otherwise you will have to look at cutting and running tbh.

Good luck,
R

I would go out more but he jus moans at me if i need to go somewhere, plus my friends have fallen out with me over him they said he was bad for me im beginning to think they were right i know i dont love him anymore so is their any point in staying with someone if theirs no love their????

niknak28

RossFixxxed wrote: »

Rather than just throw out the 'cut it and run' adivce I thought I'd give another angle. Would getting out more, seeing your friends, getting back in touch with your family regularly etc. help in any way? Maybe you need more space and time to do your own things?

Otherwise you will have to look at cutting and running tbh.

Good luck,
R

I would go out more but he jus moans at me if i need to go somewhere, plus my friends have fallen out with me over him they said he was bad for me im beginning to think they were right i know i dont love him anymore so is their any point in staying with someone if theirs no love their????

RossFixxxed

Is is moaning controlling? Ah and as you say, if there is no love there, then it IS time to go. Sometimes it might seem a bit tough but you know in your heart, either way, the best thing to do.

All the best and if there's anything else we're all here!
Ross

John Mason

well, how about getting pro-active instead of posting on the internet. tell me him to move and start making new friends