Dropping hints about being pregnant 6 days after sex

LegacyUser

Hey guys!

I dont know whether im driving myself around the bend here or she is doing this deliberately but i had sex with a girl literally last Tuesday (a weekago exactly), over the week iv been playing it cool and easy , dropping her the odd text etc. She has caught me on MSN today and starts dropping hints that shes feeling really crampy and sick but not vomiting or anything and couldnt go to work.

I just get this sinking feeling that she is hinting at being pregnant. Its only when i met up with her i realised she is mega issue / baggage-arrama

For the few times we had sex last Tuesday i was safe and used a condom (extra safe Durex) but cant but help feel that shes dropping hints like this. or maybe im being paranoid.

Could something be happening like this so soon if worse case scenario she is pregnant?

Sorry i know this is a typical post here but i dunno i am driven up the wall with this. I had a sinking feeling that she might pull something like this once i met her but now im just freaking out.

I know the whole dont do the crime if you cant do the time. I just wanna know the chances is all.

Thanks

MysticalSoul

Sounds like the symptoms I get just before my period, so may be nothing, and IIRC, a woman is only fertile for 5 days (max) every month. Think is closer to 3 though.

brianthebard

Aren't those period symptoms too? I don't think morning sickness hits that quickly anyways, but if you are that worried either confront her about it and/or ask her to take a test, although chances are its too early to say anyways.

beth-lou

Relax. It's far too early for morning sickness or anything like it. She is either suffering wind or period cramps. The fact that you wore a condom also leads me to believe you are safe as houses. Even a pregnancy test wouldn't work yet.

Mr. Presentable

KindaWorried wrote: »

Hey guys!

I dont know whether im driving myself around the bend here or she is doing this deliberately but i had sex with a girl literally last Tuesday (a weekago exactly), over the week iv been playing it cool and easy , dropping her the odd text etc. She has caught me on MSN today and starts dropping hints that shes feeling really crampy and sick but not vomiting or anything and couldnt go to work.

I just get this sinking feeling that she is hinting at being pregnant. Its only when i met up with her i realised she is mega issue / baggage-arrama

For the few times we had sex last Tuesday i was safe and used a condom (extra safe Durex) but cant but help feel that shes dropping hints like this. or maybe im being paranoid.

Could something be happening like this so soon if worse case scenario she is pregnant?

Sorry i know this is a typical post here but i dunno i am driven up the wall with this. I had a sinking feeling that she might pull something like this once i met her but now im just freaking out.

I know the whole dont do the crime if you cant do the time. I just wanna know the chances is all.

Thanks

If she has "morning sickness" she didn't catch it from you last week!

I'd go with paranoid

LegacyUser

Thanks for the reply.

we had sex last tuesday. The previous Thursday her last period started (couple days according to her)

Ok i just text her and she rang me straight back there and said she had the last of her period on the monday morning before we had sex on the tuesday and that she was no way in hinting at anything. She was tellin me we woulda had to have unprotected sex this week when shes ovulating. I said no thanks. We laughed. nervously.

So i guess that answers that really? Doesnt it? unless someone has something else to add?

kmick

Probably nothing but you better get on the buy and sell now and look for a second hand buggy.

TheZohanS

She's probably just trying to suss you out to see how you feel about her. You did say she wasn't the most balanced girl so that may be her ploy.

Alternatively she might have already been up the duff and is looking to entrap you.

If you used protection you should have nothing to worry about.

But in future try and avoid the weird ones!

(unless they are well fit and don't know where you live/work/play)

metalgear2k2

kmick wrote: »

Probably nothing but you better get on the buy and sell now and look for a second hand buggy.

Made me LOL!

trio

Honestly I'd say you're being paranoid.

I don't think she was trying to hint anything of the kind, she was just moaning because she's feeling rotten, probably because of her period, or possibly something she ate.

If she has baggage then just don't have sex with her again - simple. But I think you're letting your imagination get the better of you here.

cafecolour

I'd say you're fine. You didn't get pregnant. And she's probably just sort of likes you and is looking for some 'aww baby, I'm sorry you arent feeling well' sympathy, not trying to hint at anything.

But regardless, if you thinks she's psycho, avoid again at all costs.

Miss Fluff

She is hinting that she has period pains if anything, nothing to worry about

Fratton Fred

toos oon mate and of you covered up then you would have to be either the most unlucky person in the world, or have sperm Superman would be proud of. Sounds to me like she has period pains but is trying to worry you into thinking it is more.

If she is a but obsessive, You might want to put your pet rabbit indoors at night, just for a while anyway.

Silverfish

Women can have cramps and feel sick without it being period pains or pregnancy.

Sounds like she's just making conversation .... 'Didn't go into work, feeling crampy and sick'.

brianthebard

KindaWorried wrote: »

Thanks for the reply.

we had sex last tuesday. The previous Thursday her last period started (couple days according to her)

Ok i just text her and she rang me straight back there and said she had the last of her period on the monday morning before we had sex on the tuesday and that she was no way in hinting at anything. She was tellin me we woulda had to have unprotected sex this week when shes ovulating. I said no thanks. We laughed. nervously.

So i guess that answers that really? Doesnt it? unless someone has something else to add?

You could possibly do with learning a bit more about contraception and women's cycles so you'll know for again and not be making yourself paranoid over nothing?

SpookyDoll

If she's tellin the truth about the sums then you're in the clear, specially since yiz used condoms, its all good, dont be worryin.

However, if your woman is discussin when she is ovulating with a fella she only rode once I would steer well clear of her and her condom bursting pin in future!

har ;) seriously though you're grand.

BroomBurner

OP, in fairness, I think you're the one that is coming across as a bit psycho. Sure all she said was she wasn't feeling very well! How nervy must you be to think anytime a girl says she isn't feeling well is hinting that she is preggers?!! Have you any sisters?

Overheal

why cant we all just hang out at the malt shoppe and praise abstinence?

Oh right: Sex is fun.

I dont know that I'd think about unprotected sex after a miscommunication like that.

dudara

I'd be inclined to agree with some of the previous posters and say that she is looking for some sympathy/attention from you.

i.e. she's just slept with you, maybe she likes you and is using cramps etc to evoke some sympathy from you - in other words no thought of pregnancy