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  • 20-09-2008 8:14pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well my girlfriend broke up with me around a month and a half ago and things are really tough at the moment.( I'm always thinking about her and how happy i was and how depressed i am now) We were going out three years and we share the same group of friends so things are awkward. I still love her and she says she still loves me but doesn't want to get back with me. I'm really confused because I want to be with her but I want her to be happy, even if that was without me. Do I continue to try and get back with her or accept things the way they are?

    As mentioned before we share the same friend so whenever we as a group decide to go out I don't go because I can't bare to see my ex flirting with other people. It kills me inside. I feel completely alienated from my friends because of this. Advice?


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  • #2
    slumped
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,946 ✭✭✭slumped


    go out with your friends and be friendly towards her.

    do not pine for her, or at least don't let her know you want her.

    either that or be with someone random in front of her and see if it annoys her.


  • #3
    madmaxi
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 701 ✭✭✭madmaxi


    slumped wrote: »
    go out with your friends and be friendly towards her.

    do not pine for her, or at least don't let her know you want her.

    Agree, don't cut yourself off from your friends. No woman is worth that. Let her go & move on, it's difficult, but it's possible, as we've all done it. Been in your situation, it's not easy, but you'll get over it. Just go out & enjoy being single again, easier said than done, but try!!


  • #4
    Jules
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,756 ✭✭✭Jules


    Best thing you can do is just go out and be normal. Can i ask why you guys broke up? Was it on bad terms?


  • #5
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    Its tough but could be worse.

    I broke up last year with my girlfriend of seven years.

    Tried to substitute the loss with casual sex and beer.

    Few months passed, i attempted suicide, drove 15 miles to a lake only to realise id no bullets, ended up in the mental hospital, and then found id cist on my penis so the doctor took his knife to it.

    So there i was,in Mullingar mental hospital, no girlfriend all alone with my bleeding penis and a guy called Morris that thought i wanted to kill him.

    Bottom line is mate, dont neglect your friends to avoid her, it will get better and not hurt as much


  • #6
    SnowMonkey
    Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭SnowMonkey


    dude the end of it is this she doesnt want to be with you except it as her dession.

    As for moving on, well theres lots of single ladys out there, get moving man... some are worth it other aint. just relax and stoping building it up in your mind....


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Jules wrote: »
    Can i ask why you guys broke up? Was it on bad terms?

    Yeah, was on bad terms alright. A little argument about nothing blew into something much bigger and it just spiraled from that. Its hard to accept that something so little could cause such trouble.

    Thanks for the comments by the way, they are all greatly appreciated and are really helping in a way


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