Should I continue

Royalcan

I was going out with this girl, I am also female. We broke up over two weeks ago. She said she didn't feel the the same way for me as I did for her, but when were together it doesn't feel like that, she said that she just said all those things because she thought I wanted to hear them, well yes I did but only if they were true.
We still see each other and its become a casual thing, she says she loves spending intimate time with me as I do with her. Another factor to this is She finds it hard to relax during sex and has never came but comes so close and she finds it frustrating cause she wants it so bad.
From the start the relationship was very intense and that was another problem maybe if we had kept it casual like we are doing now it might have been different.
Could I get some advice from people out there

I really do like this girl

Karen_*

unless a casual fling with this girl is making you happy then you can't continue it. Its really confusing when things feel right but if the other person says they don't feel the same then you can't do alot but accept that. But please don't accept a demotion from girlfriend to casual encounter. You're setting yourself up for more heartache and are you not worth more?

Take the pain on the chin and make the break from her. She may come back and then she may not but she sure won't when she's got nothing to miss because you're still there. IF she wants it finished then let her have it finished. Good luck because I know its tough.

Royalcan

Should I Remain friends with her or just cut her out of my life completely to see if she comes back.

JDLK

I think you mean remaining on friendly terms rather than remaining friends. Once you begin an intimate relationship with someone you are no longer conducting a friendship and more to the point if you harbour feelings for her which go beyond friendship then there is no point trying to conduct a friendship with her. My only advice is to be bluntly honest with her- tell her how you feel, what you want from your shared relationship and make your boundaries very clear. If she does not feel the same then you can begin the process of getting over her which will be alot healthier than being in a torturous pseudo "friendship" which satisfies only her needs and keeps you hanging on in a tumultuous emotional state. You can certainly remain on friendly terms and give yourself space to get over her- and let her know this is what you are doing. If she is indignant at the space/distance you need for such a natural and normal phase then it is quite clear she is not interested in being your friend