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Seeking a barring order just to remove estranged husband.

  • 18-09-2008 11:02pm
    #1
    Struggleon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    Hi forumites
    This is my first post on this site, I just wondered if what is happening to me has happened to others.
    I'll try to be very brief...
    1. Wife cheated
    2. Marriage ended
    3. I refused to leave my kids and my home which we jointly own.
    4. Everything was OK although a little strained, the odd time we'd exchange unfriendly words but I was happy to be able to be there to mind my kids as I had done previously as she built her career ( she earned more than me so I became the primary carer and her the earner)
    5. Seven months have elapsed and now she has lost her job... I got a barring and Safety order summons out of the blue the other day. I have not and would never be a threat to her, the kids, or anybody in fact.... its just a clear case of her lying to use a law which is heavily in favour of the applicant to remove me from the house....
    I have done a lot of babysitting weekends etc as she has gone off to enjoy herself, but something cropped up which meant I had to tell her that I couldnt do that for the next month or so... all very convenient... and WOW... heres a law that can be used and abused by selfish ladies like her.

    Im just wondering if this happens a lot or if its happened to anyone else.

    Hope the above makes sense!

    No doubt Ill be packing my bags next Thursday as the concerned judge will be afraid not to give the order lest there be any truth in what she will claim Ive done etc....

    Sickened!


Comments

  • #2
    copacetic
    Subscribers Posts: 16,615 ✭✭✭✭copacetic


    have never heard of a guy come out well in the courts on family matters. not sure what advice to give on it to be honest. Have you the money for your own lawyer?


  • #3
    Struggleon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭Struggleon


    Yes I have a solicitor but I dont lack confidence and will seek his perusal of my defence but will basically be defending myself.


  • #4
    copacetic
    Subscribers Posts: 16,615 ✭✭✭✭copacetic


    Struggleon wrote: »
    Yes I have a solicitor but I dont lack confidence and will seek his perusal of my defence but will basically will be defending myself.

    thats a bad idea. let the solicititor do the job for you. it's an old saying for a reason.

    Get your evidence together, especially if you have evidence of the affair/from friends and family that you have never been violent or anything like it. Give it to your solicitor and let them take it from there.


  • #5
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Get proper legal advice.


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