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LegacyUser

Ok heres situation was going out with my boyfriend for just about 3 months more or less all summer until last week he broke it off, reason he said was he was back in college hadnt the time for girlfriend with work on top of that and he just couldnt do it, i was torn to say the least because hes the guy who was so full on throughout the whole 3months wanting to meet txting etc that i couldnt believe that he wanted to end things when they were so good and he turns around to me and goes i still really like you sooo why on earth not make it work confuses and what hurts me more he goes id still like to keep in touch if u do, so i sent a txt there the last day and his response is sooo distant i suggested meeting up for chat but he wont it really hurts i just find it hard to comprende how good we were and how different he's become i just wonder should i ask him out about situation and way hes been or just not bother my a**??

not yet

Most guys just get bored after they get what they want.......

sorry thats not what you want to hear but there you go..........

move on,get jiggy with someone else.

blah

I'm sorry, you should try using punctuation; quotes, commas, full stops. It would make your issue so much easier to understand. Thanks.

not yet

OH! QUICK HIDE......

It's my old english teacher.:mad:

witzky

blah wrote: »

I'm sorry, you should try using punctuation; quotes, commas, full stops. It would make your issue so much easier to understand. Thanks.

Blah.. ZIP it, its not an English class.

OP. best off moving on, forget about him. Few weeks and you'll be grand.

Good Luck.

W:D

LegacyUser

Aye and i would have thought this too, but we didnt get that far so it isnt the fact he's gottan what he wanted and cast me aside!

Nevyn

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Thaedydal

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Thaedydal wrote: »

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Thaedydal

here here,I for one second that.

humanji

OP, from the fact that he could easily drop you like that, it shows that he didn't think much of you to begin with. Don't think about trying to get together with him and move on. It's going to take a while to get over him, as it usually does, but in the long run you'll be better off without him.

Burial

To me it sounds like you were his "Summer Fling". I actually know of so many guys who break it off with their GF from college have a fling for the Summer and go back the the GF in college. I know you feel used, but it's better not getting involved with this guy. I think you should not contact him again as the friends I know who have college GFs, usually have the Summer GFs as back-up. (Like after college go back to Summer fling again) Best bet is ignore him until your feelings for him go, and then work on being friends if you want.

LegacyUser

Thanks humanji i guess your right the way he has acted does show that, hurts even more so. So general feeling im getting from replies is dont contact him even though its killing me not too, and even if it was to just clear the air over this hmmmm!!

kmick

Being an ex-boy (I'm a real man now!) I know that is a boy excuse I have used in the past. to be fair I only used it when I thought the girl was really nice and didn't want to hurt her too much. So count yourself lucky, move on and don't answer any booty calls when he goes through a dry period in college.

cafecolour

3 months isn't a huge amount of time - you were likely more of a fun summer fling, and now he's returned to his college and the life he had there. Also, a lot of guys (or girls) don't really like being 'tied down' in university, which I generally agree is actually good advice.

Honestly make sure you have plenty going on in your own life so you don't obsess over it, and you'll likely be over it pretty soon and he'll just be a fond summer fling in your memory as well. And who knows about next summer

LegacyUser

Thank u all soo much for advise, easy to say not contact him because its tough, even though i want him to know how confused with this sudden break up, so many questions unanswered grrr.