Can't decide..

LegacyUser

I have been on and off with this guy for the past two years and recently have found out that he has lied to me about quite a few things, now it's a long distance thing where we rarely see each other and i can see how it's been so easy for him to lie to me and i admit i've probably not always been honest with him but never anything as big as him.

I do believe he loves me but i can't get past the lies, just as an example when we first fell in love he had a girlfriend of a long time that i didn't find out about for quite sometime. Eventually he told me and i was willing to move past it and he broke up with her but what guess i'm asking is if i should risk it and be with him which is what he wants. I do love him but i can't help but think is this just a destructive relationship, if he could lie to me previously, he could do it again.

Karen_*

Yes he could do it again. And if he could go out with two of you at the one time he could do it again. So its follow your heart or follow your head really but both of them seem to be telling you the same thing in this instance. I get the impression that you're weary of the whole thing but just find it a bit tough to make the break.

LegacyUser

I guess you are right really, but then i do love him and miss him terribly when we don't talk but i guess i should cut contact and just try my best to move on